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Question #19192
244 days ago
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How to De-sexualise my brain please

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Hello doctor, I am a young man and I have a problem that really bothers me. I get erections very easily and very often, even without sexual intention. For example, when I talk to a girl, when a girl sits close to me, when I receive a simple kiss, or even when I am in public places like a taxi with girls around. This causes me a lot of stress and embarrassment. I would like to know if this is normal at my age and what I can do to reduce it. Thank you.

Age: 18
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Hello,

Frequent, unintentional erections at age 18 are normal and very common due to high hormones and a sensitive nervous system.

These erections are often reflex responses,triggered by anxiety,excitement,closeness,or social interaction not sexual intent.

The issue is over-reactivity and anxiety, not being “over-sexual.” Worrying about erections makes them more likely.

Helpful strategies include: Stop monitoring the erection and shift attention elsewhere Slow breathing (longer exhale than inhale) to calm the nervous system Reduce triggers like excessive porn, sexual fantasizing, poor sleep Regular exercise to lower adrenaline Mental reframing (“This is normal; it will pass”) Practical clothing/posture adjustments

This usually improves naturally with age as hormones stabilize and confidence grows.

Medical concern is only needed if erections are painful, last over 4 hours, or have other unusual features.

I trust this helps Feel free to talk Thank you

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Hello dear See these feelings are due to testosterone level which are at peak during this level. This is normal hormonal alterations Please donot think this bring stressful. However for better distraction from it Please follow below precautions Exercises regularly for atleast half an hour daily Do meditation daily Engage in hobbies Indulge in social media Avoid overthinking and junk food intake Avoid porn movies Hopefully in a month improvement will occur Regards

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Frequent, easily-triggered erections can indeed be a common phenomenon for young men, and it’s often linked to hormonal changes and high levels of testosterone during your age. It’s important, first, to normalize this within yourself as it’s a part of physiological responses many encounter during these years. However, if this is distressing or disruptive to daily life, there are several strategies you may consider to help manage or minimize them. Lifestyle modifications like regular physical exercise can be beneficial as they often help in reducing stress and balancing hormone levels. Relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, mindfulness, or meditation might also aid in managing anxiety that might exacerbate the issue. Cognitive distraction techniques can be useful too; try switching your thoughts towards something non-sexual or engaging your mind in another task to redirect your focus. Wearing looser clothing could additionally help since tight clothing can emphasize and discomfort. You might consider speaking with a healthcare provider to rule out any underlying medical conditions if you continue to feel overly concerned; they can offer reassurance or other interventions if necessary. Remember, knowledge into sexual health and understanding your bodily responses is empowering, and a healthcare professional can provide tailored advice based on your specific context or any associated behavioral concerns. Due to the nature of slight variability in normal sexual development, working closely with a healthcare provider is the best route to seeking clarity and support.

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