how to know which haircut suits me female

I am really struggling with figuring out how to know which haircut suits me female. It’s been a long journey for me! Like a few months ago, I went in for a trim, and the stylist cut way more than I asked for. Now I'm left with this awkward length that just doesn't do anything for my face shape. I've got an oval face, but sometimes I think my features might make me look better with layers or even bangs? I tried looking up online tutorials and guides on how to know which haircut suits me female, but everything seems so subjective, and honestly, it's making me more confused! There’s always some editorial saying “oh this style is universal” or “this cut works for everyone,” but it never does! Could layering look good on me? Or should I just go for a blunt cut that’s easy to maintain? I’ve also seen those face shape guides, but why does every photo look different? Idk maybe I’m overthinking it, might just be time to call a friend for a second opinion or something. But really, how to know which haircut suits me female? Any tips or personal experiences would be super helpful!