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Sexual Health & Wellness
Question #17852
255 days ago
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“Premature ejaculation since marriage — need effective on-demand medicine”

Chitra

Hello Doctor, I am a 37-year-old male currently working abroad. I have been married for 10 years, and since the early years of my marriage I have been struggling with premature ejaculation. I usually ejaculate within a very short time, often before my partner is satisfied. This problem has affected our relationship and has caused emotional stress, misunderstandings, and arguments over the years. I will be going on a 40-day vacation soon, and I am worried that the same problem may happen again. During my last vacation, we had a very big argument because of this issue. I want to avoid any negative experience during this upcoming trip and improve my confidence. I have never taken proper medical treatment for premature ejaculation. I have only tried basic things like condoms or slowing techniques, but they have not helped much. As far as I know, I do not have any major medical conditions, and I am not taking any regular medications. I do not have heart disease or serious health issues. (If needed, I can provide more details.) I want your guidance on the following: 1. What is the best and safest treatment for premature ejaculation for someone my age? 2. Is Dapoxetine (Manforce/Priligy) safe and suitable for me to take occasionally during my vacation? 3. What is the correct dose, how often can I take it, and what side effects should I watch for? 4. Do I need any tests (heart check, blood tests, etc.) before starting this medicine? This issue is very important for my marriage and mental well-being. Please guide me with the safest and most effective treatment plan. Thank you, Doctor.

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Hello dear See it is my personal advice to first go for preventing therapy and then switch to medication as last resort Below are the answers to your question The medication you have asked is ok to take but I recommend to take it after preventive therapy. The dies adjustment is to be done by gynaecologist only Yes after 40 below tests are required Serum troponin ECG Crp X ray chest Cholesterol level Scrotum USG Urine analysis Lft Rft In addition please follow below precautions for improvement for atleast 2 months Avoid heavy meals and alcohol Take ashwagandha or triphala once a day for 2 months Do meditation Do physical exercises atleast for half an hour Especially kegel exercises Take shilajeet for 1 month once a day In case of no improvement in 1 month, kindly consult gynaecologist for further clarification Hopefully you recover soon Regards

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Hello,

PE is common and treatable.

Answers to your questions;

1. On-demand dapoxetine and topical lidocaine spray/cream are the safest and most effective options.

2. Yes, it is safe for a healthy 37-year-old with no heart disease or major medical issues.

3. Take 30 mg dapoxetine 1–3 hours before sex (max 1 dose/24 hours). Increase to 60 mg only if needed. Side effects: mild nausea, headache, dizziness.

4. No routine tests required unless you have chest pain, BP issues, diabetes/thyroid symptoms, or take interacting medicines.

I hope its clear Thank you

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Hi Chitra,

Premature ejaculation is very common and usually treatable with proper guidance.

First-line options include behavioural techniques, using condoms, and sometimes using topical sprays or gels to reduce sensitivity.

Dapoxetine can be used on-demand in selected patients, but only after a physical check-up and prescription from a doctor to ensure it is safe for your heart and overall health.

Usual practice is to start with the lowest effective dose, monitor for side effects like nausea, dizziness, or low mood, and avoid alcohol with it.

Dapoxetine is usually started as 30 mg taken once, about 1–3 hours before anticipated sexual activity, not more than once in 24 hours, and the dose is only increased if well tolerated and still insufficient.

Basic tests like blood pressure check, ECG, fasting blood sugar, and general health review are advisable before starting any prescription medicine.

Dr Nikhil Chauhan Urologist

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Dapoxetine 30 mg 1–3 hours before sex Lidocaine spray (delay spray) 10 minutes before sex, wash excess Use condoms if you want extra control

It is safe if : You do not have heart disease You do not take antidepressants You do not take nitrates for chest pain You are not on major psychiatric medications

In person consultation would be better.

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Hello Chita

By going through your history and evaluation of your health status i am recommending you following medicine - Rx - 1) Tab Autrin 1 tab daily after food for 2 months 2) Tab ashwagandha 500 1 tab twice daily after food for 2 months 3) Tab tadalafil 10mg 2 times a week

Investigation:

CBC, ESR Thyroid Profile (TSH, T3, T4) Fasting Blood Sugar & HbA1c Vitamin B12 & D3 Testosterone (Total & Free) – for stamina/libido concerns

Thank you

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The best treatment for premature ejaculation varies between individuals, but starting with both behavioral techniques and medications is often advisable. Behavioral methods like the “stop-start” or “squeeze” technique might be worth revisiting with practice. On-demand medications like Dapoxetine can be effective, taken 1-3 hours before sexual activity. In terms of Dapoxetine, it is often considered safe for on-demand use and is designed specifically for premature ejaculation. For you, a typically starting dose is 30 mg, but this can be increased to 60 mg if needed, not to be taken more than once every 24 hours.

Users may experience side effects like nausea, headache, dizziness, or insomnia, so it’s essential to be aware of these before taking it, especially if you’re away from home. Regarding pre-treatment tests, a general health assessment, including checking blood pressure and reviewing any previous health concerns, can help ensure you’re suitable for Dapoxetine. Considering a heart check is wise if you have undiagnosed cardiovascular risks, though it’s primarily for individuals with existing medical conditions.

Your lifestyle factors, like stress and communication within your relationship, also play a significant role, so addressing these alongside medical treatment can be beneficial. If you haven’t done so already, discussing this condition with a healthcare professional can provide additional personalized advice. This approach integrates treating symptoms and addressing contributing factors to improve outcomes for both you and your partner.

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