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Sexual Health & Wellness
Question #22665
141 days ago
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how to do sex for long time

Ishita

I am really stressed out about my recent performance in the bedroom. I've been with my partner for a couple of years now and things started off great, but lately, things feel different. I can't seem to last as long as I used too. Like, just the other night, I could barely make it past 5 minutes before I finished, and I could see the disappointment on my partner’s face. It was pretty tough for both of us. We've tried different things, including changing positions and prolonging foreplay, but I keep getting anxious thinking about how to do sex for long time. And then it just doesn’t happen. I've heard about various techniques, like breathing exercises and edging, but honestly, I'm not sure which ones really work or if it’s just a bunch of myths. Also, are there things I should be considering medically - like testosterone levels or even anxiety? I just want to enjoy the intimacy again without overthinking. Can anyone share personal experiences or tips on how to do sex for long time? Would love to know if certain products or routines actually helped in such situations. Thanks!

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When it comes to lasting longer during sex, there are a variety of factors to consider, both psychological and physiological. Stress and anxiety, like you’re experiencing, can definitely play a major role. These feelings often create a cycle - where anxiety about performance leads to quicker ejaculation, which then heightens performance anxiety the next time. Focusing on reducing this anxiety through relaxation techniques can be quite helpful. One practical approach is mindfulness and breathing exercises. These are designed to help you stay in the moment and manage excitement levels, thus potentially prolonging the experience. Practicing deep, slow breaths can help calm your nervous system. There’s also the technique known as edging, which involves stopping stimulation just before climax, taking a short break, and then starting again. This can train your body to last longer over time. Medically, you may want to consider discussing your concerns with a healthcare provider to rule out any underlying issues like hormonal imbalances. Testosterone levels, for example, can impact not just sexual performance but overall energy levels and mood. Similarly, if anxiety is significantly overwhelming, considering mental health support or counselling might also help. Lastly, lifestyle factors like regular exercise, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep can contribute to overall sexual health. There are products like desensitizing creams, sprays, or condoms that some men find helpful, although it’s worth noting that results can vary and some people may experience a decrease in pleasure. If you’re contemplating these, it’s beneficial to discuss it with your partner to ensure it doesn’t impact mutual satisfaction. Remember, open and honest communication with your partner is key in navigating these challenges together.

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