Hello, thank you for sharing your concern. Your symptoms do not sound like a complete “loss of penis function,” especially because: - you still have morning erections, - ejaculation/semen release is present, - and pain has improved.
Those are important reassuring signs that major permanent damage is less likely.
After severe groin pain, stress, sleep deprivation, anxiety, urinary infection/inflammation, or pelvic muscle spasm, some people can temporarily experience: - reduced penile sensation/control feeling, - decreased arousal, - pelvic floor muscle tightness, - anxiety-related sexual dysfunction, - or altered perception of erections/movement.
The penis itself does not normally have strong “voluntary movement” like an arm or leg. What many people describe as “moving the penis” is often related to pelvic floor muscle contractions, blood flow changes, erection rigidity, and muscle tension.
The reddish urine could have been due to: - urinary infection, - dehydration, - irritation, - small stone passage, - or inflammation.
Because symptoms started suddenly with groin pain, it is still important to rule out: - prostatitis, - pelvic floor spasm, - urinary infection, - nerve irritation, - or less commonly vascular/testicular problems.
Anxiety and hyper-focusing on erections after a stressful event can also significantly worsen symptoms and reduce arousal temporarily.
Seek urgent medical care if you develop: - leg weakness, - numbness around genitals/anus, - inability to pass urine, - severe testicular pain/swelling, - fever, - or complete loss of erections.
Final Prescription / Advice: 1. Continue adequate hydration and rest 2. Avoid excessive checking/testing of erections repeatedly 3. Avoid masturbation/sexual overexertion temporarily for a few days if discomfort persists 4. Urology evaluation recommended if symptoms continue beyond 1–2 weeks 5. Urine test and physical examination may be useful
Advice: Since erections and ejaculation are still present, permanent loss of function is less likely. Temporary pelvic/urinary inflammation, stress, anxiety, or muscle spasm can sometimes cause these sensations and may improve gradually.
Feel free to reach out again.
Regards, Dr. Nirav Jain MBBS, D.Fam.Medicine
It sounds like you’re dealing with a quite complex issue that has multiple facets to it. Losing voluntary control over your penis can be concerning, and it’s important to address the possibility of nerve involvement. Since you’ve already been treated for a urinary tract infection (UTI), the first step has been covered, but let’s look at what to do next.
Considering you’ve experienced groin pain and redness in urine, there may be some inflammation or nerve irritation involved. The fact that you still experience morning erections is reassuring because it suggests that blood flow and autonomic nerve function in the penis are possibly intact. However, the loss of voluntary control and changes in arousal or satisfaction could be linked to anxiety, muscle fatigue, or possible nerve compression or irritation in the groin area.
I’d strongly advise you to follow up with your healthcare provider to further assess the situation. Key areas to evaluate include whether there’s any ongoing nerve compression (potentially from prolonged sitting during your journey or an unnoticed injury) or an unresolved infection. They might consider physical examination or tests, such as an ultrasound or MRI, to check for nerve issues or other pathologies in the pelvic region.
In the meantime, try to avoid activities that might exacerbate the condition, like heavy lifting or prolonged sitting. Staying hydrated and maintaining a healthy lifestyle can help your recovery. Your doctor might suggest medications or therapies to help improve nerve function if a specific issue is identified. Until your medical provider determines the exact cause, it’s best not to make assumptions. Prioritize seeing a specialist, such as a urologist or neurologist, as they may be able to provide more specific insights into why this is happening and the best course of treatment.
Hello
The fact that you still have morning erections and semen release is reassuring because it suggests that blood flow and basic erectile function are still present. Loss of voluntary “movement” or reduced sensation/control after severe groin pain, stress, lack of sleep, anxiety, or a recent urinary infection can sometimes happen temporarily due to pelvic muscle spasm, nerve irritation, inflammation, or anxiety-related sexual dysfunction. Since this started suddenly less than a week ago, it does not necessarily mean permanent damage.
The reddish urine and groin pain may have been related to a urinary infection, irritation, dehydration, or strain after the long journey. Anxiety and fear after these symptoms can also reduce arousal, sensation, and confidence, which can make the problem feel worse. In many cases, symptoms improve gradually over days to weeks once the infection, inflammation, and stress settle.
For now, complete any medicines prescribed by your doctor, stay hydrated, avoid excessive checking/testing of erections, avoid masturbation for a few days if it increases discomfort, and get proper sleep and rest. Avoid heavy lifting, cycling, or prolonged sitting temporarily.
However, because you described severe groin pain and a sudden change in penile control/sensation, it is important to follow up with a urologist, especially if symptoms persist, worsen, or if you develop numbness, weakness in the legs, urinary retention, loss of bladder/bowel control, swelling, or complete erectile loss. A doctor may examine for nerve irritation, pelvic floor issues, prostatitis, or other urinary/genital conditions. Based on your description, recovery is still possible and permanent loss is not certain.
Take care Feel free to reach out again
Hello Thanks for sharing your experience—this sounds quite distressing, but let’s break it down calmly.
What happened:
- After a stressful journey and sleepless night, you had severe groin pain, high heart rate, and then reddish urine.
- Doctor gave you medicine for UTI, pain improved, but now you feel you can’t control penis movement voluntarily, less arousal, and no satisfaction from sleep or sexual activity. Morning erections and semen release are still happening.
What this means:
- The reddish urine could have been from irritation, infection, or even dehydration.
- Loss of voluntary movement/control of the penis is unusual. Since you still have morning erections and semen release, the nerves and blood supply are working, but the “feeling of control” is reduced.
- This can sometimes happen after a UTI, stress, or even anxiety, but rarely is it permanent. It’s also possible that muscle tension, nerve irritation, or psychological stress is playing a role.
Will it recover?
- Most cases like this do recover, especially if pain and infection have resolved.
- Recovery can take days to weeks, depending on the cause.
- If you still have erections and semen release, it’s a good sign that the main functions are intact.
What should you do?
- Don’t panic—give your body some time to recover.
- Avoid self-medicating further.
- If symptoms persist for more than 1-2 weeks, or if you notice numbness, weakness in legs, loss of bladder/bowel control, or worsening symptoms, see a urologist or neurologist.
- Focus on rest, hydration, and reducing stress.
Bottom line:
You haven’t lost complete movement—most likely, it’s temporary and will improve. If not, or if new symptoms appear, get a specialist’s opinion.
Thank you
Hi there,
I understand how unsettling this must feel. The good news is that the return of morning erections and ejaculation points to the deeper nerves and blood supply still working. Here’s what you need to know, crisp and clear:
· What’s likely happening – Severe groin pain and UTI can trigger intense pelvic floor muscle spasm and temporary nerve “stunning.” The voluntary movement you’ve lost (lifting/twitching the penis) is controlled by a separate set of somatic nerves that are probably just irritated, not permanently damaged. · Will it recover? – Yes, in the vast majority of such cases. Somatic nerve recovery can lag behind pain relief, but it typically returns within a few days to 2–3 weeks once the inflammation settles. The fact you already have no pain is a strong positive sign. · What to do right now – Avoid repeatedly testing the movement (straining only adds muscle fatigue). Do gentle pelvic floor relaxation: deep belly breathing, warm sitz baths, and avoid prolonged sitting or straining for bowel movements. · Medicine or self-healing? – Since the UTI medication cleared pain but left this residue, it’s now about nerve/muscle recovery rather than infection. No new pills without a doctor’s advice. However, if no improvement at all after 1 week from now, a neurologist or urologist must assess pudendal nerve function. · Red flag reassurance – You’ve not lost complete function. Morning erections and ejaculation mean the automatic pathways are intact. Voluntary movement can lag but almost always comes back.
You’re not “broken” — your body is just hitting pause on one specific circuit while it heals. Keep your follow-up appointment, and in the meantime, rest the area both physically and mentally.
Wishing you a fast and full recovery,
Dr Nikhil Chauhan Urologist
The fact that you still have morning erections and ejaculation is reassuring because it suggests the main blood flow and erectile mechanisms are still functioning. After severe groin pain, stress, lack of sleep, anxiety, urinary symptoms, and possible infection/inflammation, it is possible to temporarily feel reduced penile control, altered sensation, pelvic muscle tightness, or decreased arousal, and anxiety itself can further worsen the feeling of “loss of control.”
However, since the symptoms started suddenly and are significantly affecting you, you should follow up with a Urology specialist to rule out nerve irritation, pelvic floor dysfunction, prostatitis, or complications related to the earlier groin pain and reddish urine. In many cases these symptoms improve with recovery and treatment of the underlying issue, so this does not automatically mean permanent loss of function, but seek urgent care if you develop numbness in the groin, weakness in the legs, loss of bladder/bowel control, worsening pain/swelling, or inability to urinate.
