बिना सुरक्षा के एनल सेक्स के बाद मेरे लिंग पर दर्दनाक अल्सर क्यों हो रहा है?

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2 days ago

बिना सुरक्षा के एनल सेक्स के बाद मेरे लिंग पर दर्दनाक अल्सर क्यों हो रहा है?

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मेरे लिंग पर अल्सर हो गया है और उसमें दर्द और जलन हो रही है। हाल ही में मैंने बिना सुरक्षा के गुदा सेक्स किया था, उसके बाद से ही मुझे यह अल्सर हो गया है।

How long have you had the ulcer?:

- Less than 1 week

Is the pain constant or does it come and go?:

- Only when touched

Have you noticed any other symptoms?:

- No other symptoms

Have you had any similar issues in the past?:

- No, this is the first time

Have you been tested for STDs before this incident?:

- No, never

Are you currently experiencing any other health issues?:

- No, I'm generally healthy

What is your usual sexual health practice?:

- Sometimes use protection

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Dr. Bharat Joshi

I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.

1 day ago

Hello dear
I think it is balanitis
Iam suggesting some precautions and medication for improvement
Please follow them for atleast two weeks
Candid/clomed/clozed twice a day for 15 days
Micogel to be applied topically
Nizoral	 for Skin application
Terbinafine	250 mg twice a day for 5 days ( oral)
in addition
Apply lulliconazole or fusidic acid topical application twice a day for 5 days
Prevent moisture contamination
Dry the involved organ
Use lukewarm water for cleaning
In case of no improvement consult general physician (medicine) for better clarity
Hopefully you recover soon
Regards

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1 day ago

painful, burning penile ulcer that appeared within a week after unprotected anal sex should be considered a possible sexually transmitted infection (STI) until proven otherwise. Common causes include genital herpes (HSV), which often causes painful ulcers or sores, as well as syphilis, chancroid, or other infections, although some of these are less common depending on the region. Friction-related injury is also possible, but the presence of a true ulcer and burning pain after unprotected sexual contact makes an STI evaluation important. Because this is your first episode and you have never been tested for STDs, you should arrange medical evaluation as soon as possible for examination and appropriate testing, which may include swabs of the ulcer and blood tests for infections such as herpes, syphilis, HIV, hepatitis B, and hepatitis C. Avoid sexual activity until you have been assessed, as some infections can be transmitted even when symptoms are mild. Overall, a painful penile ulcer following unprotected sex is not something that should be ignored, and prompt testing and treatment can help identify the cause and reduce the risk of complications or transmission to partners

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1 day ago

Hello dr
A painful, burning ulcer on the penis that appeared within a week after unprotected anal sex could be due to several causes, including a sexually transmitted infection (STI). One possibility is Genital Herpes, which often causes painful sores or ulcers. Other infections, traumatic injury from friction, or bacterial infections are also possible.
Because it is impossible to determine the cause without an examination and testing, you should see a healthcare professional or sexual health clinic as soon as possible. Early diagnosis is important because some conditions benefit from prompt treatment.
Until you are evaluated:
* Avoid sexual activity or use condoms consistently.
* Keep the area clean and dry.
* Do not apply harsh creams or medications unless prescribed.
* Avoid picking at or squeezing the ulcer.
You should be tested for common STIs, including Genital Herpes, Syphilis, HIV/AIDS, and other infections as recommended by your clinician.
Seek urgent medical attention if you develop fever, multiple painful sores, difficulty urinating, rapidly worsening swelling, or severe pain.
If possible, can you describe the ulcer (single or multiple, size, any blisters before it appeared, and whether there are swollen groin lymph nodes)? These details may help narrow the possibilities.
Take care
Feel free to reach out

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1 day ago

Hello,
A painful, burning penile ulcer appearing within days of unprotected anal sex should be considered a possible sexually transmitted infection (STI) until proven otherwise.
The most common possibilities include:
Genital herpes (HSV) – often causes painful ulcers or sores, burning, and tenderness. This is one of the most common causes of a painful genital ulcer.
Syphilis – typically causes a painless ulcer, but presentations can vary.
Traumatic ulcer/friction injury from sexual activity, especially anal intercourse with inadequate lubrication.
Less commonly, other infections such as chancroid (depending on location and exposure risk).
Because the ulcer is painful and burning, herpes and trauma/friction would be high on the list, but an examination is needed to distinguish them.
What you should do
See a doctor (preferably a dermatologist, venereologist, or sexual health clinic) as soon as possible, ideally within the next few days.
Avoid sexual activity until you are evaluated.
Do not apply over-the-counter creams, antiseptics, or steroid creams unless prescribed.
Keep the area clean and dry.
Tests that may be recommended
Examination of the ulcer
HSV (herpes) testing if available
Syphilis testing (VDRL/RPR and confirmatory tests)
HIV testing
Hepatitis B and C screening
Other STI tests depending on your exposure and local recommendations
Seek urgent medical care if
You develop fever,
Multiple ulcers appear,
There is pus or foul-smelling discharge,
You cannot pass urine normally,
The pain becomes severe.
Since this started after unprotected anal sex and you have never been tested for STIs before, I would strongly recommend getting a full STI evaluation rather than assuming it is only a friction injury.
Feel free to reach out again.
Regards,
Dr. Nirav Jain
MBBS, D.Fam.Medicine

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1 day ago

Hello
Thank you for sharing this, and I understand this must be uncomfortable and worrying. A painful, burning ulcer on the penis after unprotected anal sex can be caused by several things, including sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like herpes, syphilis, or chancroid, as well as non-infectious causes.
### What You Should Do
- See a doctor or dermatologist/venereologist as soon as possible.

You need a physical examination and possibly some tests (like swabs or blood tests) to find the exact cause and get the right treatment.
- Avoid sexual contact until you have been evaluated and treated, to prevent spreading any possible infection.
- Do not apply any creams or home remedies without medical advice, as this can sometimes make things worse.
### Why This Is Important
Some STIs can cause ulcers that are painful and may need specific treatment. Early diagnosis and treatment can help you heal faster and prevent complications.
If you develop fever, difficulty passing urine, or if the ulcer gets bigger or starts to bleed, seek medical attention urgently.
Thank you

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11 hours ago

An ulcer on your penis that appears after unprotected anal sex could be concerning and warrants quick medical evaluation, especially considering the symptoms of pain and burning. One possibility is that it could be a sign of a sexually transmitted infection (STI), particularly syphilis or herpes. Syphilis often begins with a painless sore, but herpes sores can be painful and cause burning sensations. It’s important to consider other symptoms like fever, swollen lymph nodes, or any discharge, as these can give further clues to the underlying condition. Additionally, the risk of other STIs such as gonorrhea or chlamydia, as well as potential non-STI related causes like trauma or a skin reaction, should be kept in mind. Despite the discomfort, it’s crucial to resist any at-home treatments or assumptions without a professional evaluation. Schedule an appointment with a healthcare provider as soon as possible for a thorough examination and appropriate testing. Inform your doctor about your recent sexual activities and any other symptoms you’ve noticed. This will help in accurate diagnosis and treatment. Avoid any sexual contact until the condition is assessed and resolved, as this can prevent further transmission or complications. Meanwhile, practicing safe sex in the future including the use of condoms can significantly lower the risk of acquiring infections. Seeking medical attention promptly is key as untreated conditions could lead to complications. Remember, addressing this early enhances the likelihood of a straightforward treatment and recovery.

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