Is my hymen broken after high bidet pressure? - #16638

Hello dear See hymen can tear from application of minor finger pressure or application of sex toys. Rubbing usually donot tear it but application of trauma or injury besides sex can break it. So it is possible that hymen can break on excess internal pressure. Blood probably is coming due to penetration of finger or internal trauma However for actual confirmation Consult gynaecologist in person for better clarity Regards

Many people do not bleed at all, even if their hymen has never been touched.

Reasons: Hymens are usually stretchy Some have wide natural openings Some only have minor stretching with no blood Some tear but do not bleed noticeably So: You may bleed, or you may not both are normal. Bleeding is not a reliable indicator of intactness or sexual activity.

Hello N By going through your history and evaluation of your health status I must say that Thanks for sharing your concerns—these questions are quite common and it’s good you’re seeking clarity. 1. Hymen and Bidet Pressure: Yes, it’s possible for strong water pressure from a bidet to cause minor injury or irritation to the vaginal opening, including the hymen, especially if the stream is direct and forceful. However, bleeding after such an event is more likely due to minor surface irritation or small tears in the delicate skin rather than a complete hymen tear. 2. Bleeding After Masturbation:Bleeding after aggressive clitoral stimulation is usually from irritation or tiny abrasions to the skin, not necessarily from the hymen. The hymen is a thin membrane and can be stretched or torn by various activities—not just penetration—including sports, tampon use, or even routine activities. 3. Future Penetration and Bleeding:If your hymen has already stretched or torn, you may not bleed during first-time penetration. Some people never bleed at all, and that’s perfectly normal. 4. Checking Hymen Intactness: It’s very difficult to tell if the hymen is intact just by looking, even for doctors. The hymen varies greatly in appearance and can be thin, thick, or have natural openings. Its condition doesn’t reliably indicate anything about sexual activity.

Thank you

Hello dear,

A high-pressure bidet is very unlikely to tear the hymen because water cannot penetrate deeply enough to cause that.

The bleeding you had is much more likely from irritation or a small surface scratch, especially since you’ve bled before from rubbing the area.

Bleeding now does not predict whether you will bleed during future penetration-some people bleed, many don’t.

You cannot reliably tell if your hymen is intact just by looking; even doctors often can’t.

🛑A hymen does not prove or disprove virginity. Virginity is a personal concept, not something that can be measured by anatomy.

🛑👍Overall, what you experienced is normal and not harmful.

I trust this helps Feel free to talk Thank you

Hi N,

Strong water jet can cause minor cuts and bleeding at the hymen or vaginal opening, but complete hymen rupture from a bidet is unlikely.

Clitoral masturbation without inserting anything into the vagina does not usually tear the hymen; bleeding is more often from surface irritation.

You may still bleed or feel discomfort during first penetration even if you had a small prior injury, or you may not bleed at all.

You cannot reliably tell if your hymen is “intact” just by looking yourself; even doctors cannot use hymen appearance to prove virginity.

So, don’t panic and stay calm, you might not have injured you. For further assistance you can contact me.

Dr Nikhil Chauhan urologist