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46 days ago
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Severe premature ejaculation from early age - #11271

Abhi

Age 30, starting se pe ki problem h.. Without penetrantion ke hi ejaculate ho jata hai..jiski wajah se erection bhi km ho gya hai.. Any remedy? Allopathic doctors ko dikhaya unhone peroxitine try kri thi but jyada effect nhi hua.. Dont knw physiology hai ya psychologically.. Pls help..

Age: 30
Chronic illnesses: No
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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
46 days ago
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Yes treatment is available. But this requires frequent counselling. Like knowing all problems. In person consultation is better option. Thank you.

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
45 days ago
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Hello dear Aapki problem se lag raha kaphi time se theek nahin hui hai Aapko test likh raha hun ye karwa ke sexologist ko dikhana Serum tsh Serum testosterone Serum androgen Urine analysis Iske alawa kuch tarikey bata raha hun follow karna Do meditation Do kegel exercises Take ashwagandha once a day for 1 month Take shilajeet or triphala once a day for 1 month Test ki report dikhaye Bina koi dwai mat khana Hopefully aap jaldi theek ho jao Regards

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Dr. Alan Reji
I'm Dr. Alan Reji, a general dentist with a deep-rooted passion for helping people achieve lasting oral health while making dental visits feel less intimidating. I graduated from Pushpagiri College of Dental Sciences (batch of 2018), and ever since, I've been committed to offering high-quality care that balances both advanced clinical knowledge and genuine compassion for my patients. Starting Dent To Smile here in Palakkad wasn’t just about opening a clinic—it was really about creating a space where people feel relaxed the moment they walk in. Dental care can feel cold or overly clinical, and I’ve always wanted to change that. So I focused on making it warm, easygoing, and centered completely around you. I mix new-age tech with some good old-fashioned values—really listening, explaining stuff without jargon, and making sure you feel involved, not just treated. From regular cleanings to fillings or even cosmetic work, I try my best to keep things smooth and stress-free. No hidden steps. No last-minute surprises. I have a strong interest in patient education and preventive dentistry. I genuinely believe most dental issues can be caught early—or even avoided—when patients are given the right information at the right time. That’s why I take time to talk, not just treat. Helping people understand why something’s happening is as important to me as treating what’s happening. At my practice, I’ve made it a point to stay current with the latest innovations—digital diagnostics, minimally invasive techniques, and smart scheduling that respects people’s time. I also try to make my services accessible and affordable, because good dental care shouldn’t be out of reach for anyone.
41 days ago
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What you describe sounds like premature ejaculation with reduced erection, which can be due to both psychological factors (stress, anxiety) and sometimes physical causes. Since paroxetine didn’t help much, techniques like the start–stop method, Kegel exercises, and counseling for sexual anxiety can be more effective along with medication if needed. Please consult a Urologist or Sexologist who can combine behavioral therapy with the right medicines for better results.

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Dr. Neeraj Agarwal
I’m an MBBS graduate with a deep commitment to providing meaningful, patient-first care. My clinical training has given me a solid understanding of how to assess and manage a wide variety of health conditions—both common and complex. But beyond just clinical skills, I’ve always believed that the heart of medicine lies in listening. That’s what I try to bring into every consultation: not just treatment, but genuine attention to the person in front of me. I have gained experience across general medicine, paediatrics, emergency care and preventive health. I have treated patients of different age groups and backgrounds, which has helped shaped a more flexible, to diagnosis and management. Whether someone comes with a new symptom or a routine check-up, I aim to deliver evidence-based treatment, explained clearly and tailored to the lifestyle. I’m especially focused on making care accessible and comfortable. Too often, patients feel rushed or confused when they leave a doctor’s office—I try to do the opposite. Taking time to explain options, risks, or even just what’s going on in simple terms is something I take seriously. Communication, I think, is just as important as any prescription. I actively stay updated with current medical guidelines and research, and I’ve been exploring areas of holistic care and preventive medicine too. The more we can do to catch problems early—or better yet, avoid them—the better the outcome for everyone. I’ve seen how small lifestyle changes, when supported properly, can make a big difference to long-term health. There’s still a lot to learn, of course. I think every good doctor keeps learning. But every patient I see teaches me something new, and I carry those lessons forward—with honesty, empathy, and the intent to keep improving.
46 days ago
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Stress induced ho sakta …sath m testosterone level check karwao Changes that will help you Kegel exercises: Strengthen pelvic floor, improve erection firmness.

Losing belly fat: Exposes more of the base, giving the illusion of greater length.

Good sleep + testosterone-friendly diet #Diet for you Zinc: Pumpkin seeds, cashews, eggs

Vitamin C & E: Amla, oranges, almonds

Omega-3s: Walnuts, flaxseeds, fish

L-Carnitine: Found in dairy and red meat

Ashwagandha: Shown to improve sperm count and motility Shilajit to increase testosterone level

#avoid Smoking, alcohol, and excess caffeine

Heat on testicles (tight underwear, laptops on lap, hot tubs)

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Hello Abhi. There are number of issues that can cause premature ejaculation like stress, anxiety, depression, or hypersensitive glans penis. Treatment needs to be planned depending on the underlying cause. Paroxetine is one good drug for the problem but if it is not working for you, it might need increase in dose. There are on-demand treatments also available like lidocaine-prilocaine spray or cream and Dapoxetine tablets. You can alternatively try start-stop or squeeze techniques consistently (you can find videos in YouTube). Having performance anxiety while doing sex will only worsen the problem. Try to engage in more foreplay and not to think about your performance during sexual activity. Let me know if you have any more doubts. Regards.

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Premature ejaculation (PE) is indeed a common issue and can be quite frustrating. Since you’ve already seen a doctor and tried paroxetine, which is an SSRI commonly used to help manage this condition, it’s important to look at other potential strategies. PE can have both psychological and physiological components, so addressing both might be necessary. For physiological aspects, you can explore other medication options like topical anesthetics, which can numb sensation and help delay ejaculation. It’s crucial to use these as directed to avoid impacting erection negatively. For psychological factors, behavioral techniques like the ‘stop-start’ method or ‘squeeze’ technique during sexual activity can be helpful. These involve pauses or applying pressure to reduce arousal or ejaculatory urgency, giving you more control over the timing. While these techniques require practice and patience, they can be quite effective over time. Consulting a therapist who specializes in sexual health could provide further strategies tailored to your specific needs and concerns. Additionally, pelvic floor exercises, commonly known as Kegel exercises, might strengthen muscles in the pelvic region, offering better control. Regular practice of these exercises can sometimes improve sexual stamina. It’s essential, though, to discuss your symptoms with your doctor to optimize treatment, considering you already have experience with some forms of intervention. They might suggest or prescribe alternative medications or refer you to a specialist for more targeted therapy. Make sure the treatment plan aligns with your lifestyle and addresses all possible causes.

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