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Fear of getting some disease like std - #10813

Abhay

I had sexual intercourse with someone on 14 th march we just had protected oral sex cuddle and deep kissing butI don't know why I got worried that i will get hiv then i got tested with antigen antibody p24 test it came negative but the anxiety doesn't go away so i got tested around 3.4 months rapid antibodytest it also came negative but i don't know i still feel worried and keep checking for symptoms i feel disgusted and shamed like i have done something wrong which is stopping me from further getting in relationship with someone

Age: 19
Chronic illnesses: No
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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
45 days ago
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RX, 1) Tab Nexito forte 1/2 tab for first 3 days then continue 1 tab daily at bedtime for 4 weeks

You are not at risk of HIV based on exposure type Tests taken at 3.4 months are conclusive no need for retesting HIV cannot spread through kissing, cuddling, or protected oral sex Feelings of guilt/shame are psychological and treatable Avoid excessive googling or symptom-checking it feeds anxiety

Follow up soon

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
45 days ago
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Hello dear Please be aware See hiv spread is maximum through blood and that too by contaminated syringes( 90%) By kissing or through saliva it doesn’t spread In fact it is destroyed by saliva due to lysozyme So please donot worry. However if you are still anxious you can take following medications for therapetic purpose Tab zidividune/ didanosine Tab nevirapine In addition please get fresh test done for confirmation Cd4 count Elisa test Kindly share the reports first and if required,then take medication and that too in person with general physician Regards

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Dr. Alan Reji
I'm Dr. Alan Reji, a general dentist with a deep-rooted passion for helping people achieve lasting oral health while making dental visits feel less intimidating. I graduated from Pushpagiri College of Dental Sciences (batch of 2018), and ever since, I've been committed to offering high-quality care that balances both advanced clinical knowledge and genuine compassion for my patients. Starting Dent To Smile here in Palakkad wasn’t just about opening a clinic—it was really about creating a space where people feel relaxed the moment they walk in. Dental care can feel cold or overly clinical, and I’ve always wanted to change that. So I focused on making it warm, easygoing, and centered completely around you. I mix new-age tech with some good old-fashioned values—really listening, explaining stuff without jargon, and making sure you feel involved, not just treated. From regular cleanings to fillings or even cosmetic work, I try my best to keep things smooth and stress-free. No hidden steps. No last-minute surprises. I have a strong interest in patient education and preventive dentistry. I genuinely believe most dental issues can be caught early—or even avoided—when patients are given the right information at the right time. That’s why I take time to talk, not just treat. Helping people understand why something’s happening is as important to me as treating what’s happening. At my practice, I’ve made it a point to stay current with the latest innovations—digital diagnostics, minimally invasive techniques, and smart scheduling that respects people’s time. I also try to make my services accessible and affordable, because good dental care shouldn’t be out of reach for anyone.
43 days ago
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You had no significant HIV risk from protected oral sex and kissing, and your negative tests at 3–4 months (including antigen/antibody and rapid antibody tests) confirm you are HIV-negative. Your ongoing fear and shame may be rooted in health anxiety or guilt, rather than any real medical issue. Consult a mental health professional or clinical psychologist to help process these feelings and regain confidence in relationships.

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Hi Mr. Abhay. Excessive worrying and anxiety about contracting STIs despite multiple tests coming negative may point towards health anxiety. And the more you are preoccupied about contracting STIs, the more vicious the cycle of reassurance seeking with lab tests and anxiety gets worsened. If you are not able to overcome worrying or anxiety, please consult psychiatrist for evaluation of health anxiety and appropriate management. Regards.

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Dr. Neeraj Agarwal
I’m an MBBS graduate with a deep commitment to providing meaningful, patient-first care. My clinical training has given me a solid understanding of how to assess and manage a wide variety of health conditions—both common and complex. But beyond just clinical skills, I’ve always believed that the heart of medicine lies in listening. That’s what I try to bring into every consultation: not just treatment, but genuine attention to the person in front of me. I have gained experience across general medicine, paediatrics, emergency care and preventive health. I have treated patients of different age groups and backgrounds, which has helped shaped a more flexible, to diagnosis and management. Whether someone comes with a new symptom or a routine check-up, I aim to deliver evidence-based treatment, explained clearly and tailored to the lifestyle. I’m especially focused on making care accessible and comfortable. Too often, patients feel rushed or confused when they leave a doctor’s office—I try to do the opposite. Taking time to explain options, risks, or even just what’s going on in simple terms is something I take seriously. Communication, I think, is just as important as any prescription. I actively stay updated with current medical guidelines and research, and I’ve been exploring areas of holistic care and preventive medicine too. The more we can do to catch problems early—or better yet, avoid them—the better the outcome for everyone. I’ve seen how small lifestyle changes, when supported properly, can make a big difference to long-term health. There’s still a lot to learn, of course. I think every good doctor keeps learning. But every patient I see teaches me something new, and I carry those lessons forward—with honesty, empathy, and the intent to keep improving.
44 days ago
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Hello abhay I know it can be hard and cause anxiety even though you have taken precautions during your intimate moments As you have gotten tested twice in interval of 4 month and test cme negative then I assure you that there are no chances of you getting hiv from this encounter

To calm down your anxiety i would suggest you to get counselling down that will help you to ease up your mind … kindly visit a psychiatrist or counsellor they will help you with feeling you are feeling right now

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