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How to maintain a good and healthy sex - #11664

Parul

Sex ke time par bleeding hone lag gayi ...jabki 1st time ladki ko ho sakti hai sex ke time par, lekin ye 1st nahi tha , bich mein 7 8 mahin ka gap lag gya tha , uske baad m kiya to vagina se blood aane laga .. kya reason ho sakta hai iska

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
45 days ago
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Hello dear See bleeding after gap during sex can be related with construction of uterus or lack of lubrication The later is ok but former is very dangerous I suggest you to please get following tests done for confirmation Urine analysis Ct urography USG kub Intravenous urography Please share the details with gynacolologist in person for better clarification. Hopefully you recover soon Regards

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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
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Immediate care at home:

Use water-based lubricant during sex. Ensure good foreplay to allow natural lubrication. Avoid rough or hurried intercourse

Your bleeding is not normal after sex (except in first time). Most likely due to dryness or small tear after long gap, but it’s important to rule out cervical or uterine causes. A gynecologist check-up is necessary to be safe.

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Dr. Nirav Jain
I am a qualified medical doctor with MBBS and DNB Diploma in Family Medicine from NBEMS, and my work has always been centered on treating patients in a complete, not just symptom based way. During my DNB training I rotated through almost every core department—Internal medicine, Pediatrics, Obstetrics & Gynecology, Surgery, Orthopedics, ENT, Dermatology, Psychiatry, Emergency medicine. That mix gave me the skill to manage acute illness, long term disease and preventive care together, something I find very important in family practice. In psychiatry I worked closely with patients who struggled with depression, anxiety, stress related problems, insomnia or substance use. I learned not just about medication but also about simple psychotherapy tools, psycho education and how to talk openly without judgement. I still use that exp in family medicine, specially when chronic disease patients also face mental health issues. My time in General surgery included assisting in minor and major procedures, managing wounds, abscess, sutures and emergencies. While I am not a surgeon, this gave me confidence to recognize surgical cases early, provide first line care and refer fast when needed, which makes a big difference in online or OPD settings. Now I work as a consultant in General medicine and Family practice, with focus on both in-person and online consultation. I treat conditions like fever, infections, gastrointestinal complaints, respiratory illness, and also manage diabetes, hypertension, thyroid disorders, and lifestyle related chronic diseases. I see women for PCOS, contraception counseling, menstrual health, and children for common pediatric issues. I also dedicate time to preventive health, lifestyle counseling and diet-sleep-exercise advice, since these small changes affect long term wellness more than we often realize. My key skills include holistic diagnosis, evidence based treatment, chronic disease management, mental health support, preventive medicine and telemedicine communiation. At the center of all this is one thing—patients should feel heard, safe, and guided with care that is both professional and personal.
45 days ago
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Hello Parul,

Sexual intercourse ke time bleeding hona sirf pehli baar hi nahi, kabhi-kabhi baad me bhi ho sakta hai. 7–8 mahine ka gap hone ke baad vaginal dryness aur tissue ke chhote tear hone ki wajah se bleeding ho sakti hai. Lekin infection (cervicitis, vaginitis), cervical changes (erosion, polyp), ya hormonal imbalance bhi iska karan ho sakte hain.

Agar bleeding sirf halki aur ek hi baar hui hai to tension ki baat nahi hai.

Agar baar-baar hoti hai, ya zyada bleeding/discharge/pain ke sath hai, to ek baar gynecologist ko dikhakar pelvic exam aur Pap smear/ultrasound karwana bahut zaroori hai.

Filhal aapko lubrication ka use karna, gentle intercourse karna, aur agar white discharge/itching ho to infection ka ilaaj karna chahiye.

Infection ka ilaaj -

Tab. Doxycycline 100mg, twice a day Tab. Metronidazole 400mg, twice a day, both for 7 days Clotrimazole Vaginal Pessary 500mg once only at night, only for one day.

Regards,

Dr. Nirav Jain MBBS, DNB D.Fam.Med

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Dr. Perambalur Ayyadurai Rohith
I am a general physician with more than 10 yr of clinical experiance, and in this time I worked with patients from all age groups, from young kids to elderly with multiple chronic issues. My practice has been wide, but I gradually developed deeper intrest in diabetology. I spend much of my day focusing on prevention, early diagnosis and management of diabetes, using lifestyle modification, medical therapy and regular monitoring. Many patients come worried about complications, and I try to explain things in simple language, whether it is diet, excercise, or understanding lab reports, so they dont feel lost. I also conduct detailed diagnostic evaluation and use evidence based protocols to make sure treatment is reliable and updated, even if sometimes I double check myself when results dont match the clinical picture. Apart from regular OPD practice, I gained strong experiance in occupational health. Over years I worked with multiple companies handling pre employment checks, annual medical exams, workplace wellness programs, and ensuring compliance with industrial health and safety standards. It is diffrent from hospital practice, but equally important, because healthy workers mean safe and productive workplace. I run medical surveillance programs and health awareness sessions in collaboration with corporates, and this also gave me exposure to preventive strategies on a large scale. For me, patient care is not just treatment but building trust. My career revolve around preventive medicine, ethical clinical practice, and continuous learning. I keep myself updated with modern medical protocols, but I also value listening to patient worries, since medicine is not only about lab values but also about how a person feels in daily life. I make mistakes in words sometimes, but in my work I try to be very precise. At end of day, my aim is to provide care that is accessible, evidence based and truly centered on patient well being.
45 days ago
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1.Bleeding during sex after a gap can happen due to dryness or lack of lubrication.

2.It may also occur if the vaginal wall becomes sensitive or there is minor injury.

3.Sometimes infections, cervical erosion, or polyps can also cause bleeding.

4.Using lubricants and proper foreplay can reduce dryness and friction.

5.If bleeding repeats or is heavy, a gynecologist checkup is important.

6.Timely evaluation will rule out serious causes and help maintain a healthy sex life.

7.Do not ignore repeated bleeding, please consult a gynecologist to stay safe and healthy.

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Dr. Vandana
I am working in medicine from last 10 years, and in that time I got to see and learn from many different kind of patients and clinical situations. Some days were about routine opd cases, fevers, diabetes follow up, other days meant handling tough emergencies where every second matterd. Over this period I grew more confident in making clinical judgement, choosing right investigations, and explaining things in a way that patient and family could actually understand without too much medical jargon. My focus is always on giving treatment that is both evidence based and also practical for daily life. I try not to look at disease in isolation but at the whole body and mind together, cause often small details in lifestyle or stress pattern make a big difference in recovery. In hospital settings I managed both inpatient and outpatient care, coordinated with nursing staff, and took part in ward rounds where teamwork mattered more than individual effort. Across 10 yrs of work I also made a point to keep learning newer protocols, whether in management of hypertension, respiratory infections, or acute cardiac complaints. And yes mistakes were there too—early in career I was slower in procedures like IV cannula or suturing, but I learnt by doing, by watching seniors and then practicing until it came natural. Over time I handled more complicated cases, sometimes multiple co-morbidities in one patient, and realised that patience and listening carefully are as important as prescribing medicine. I continue to refine my approach, balancing between clinical efficiency and compassionate care. For me, the real achievement is not only in diagnosis but in seeing a patient return home safer and more reassured. Even now after a decade, I still find myself learning something new from every case, every interaction. That keeps me grounded and motivated to serve better each day.
45 days ago
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Sometimes women may notice bleeding after sex, and while this can feel worrying, it often has simple explanations. Common causes include a soft or sensitive cervix that bleeds easily, small growths called polyps, vaginal or cervical infections, dryness (especially after menopause), or minor injury from friction. Less commonly, it can be due to changes in the cervix that could lead to cancer, or problems inside the womb such as polyps. If the bleeding is very light and happens just once, it may not be serious, but if it keeps happening, is heavy, or comes with pain or unusual discharge, it’s important to see a gynecologist. The doctor may check with an examination, Pap smear, or scan, and treatment will depend on the cause — infections can be treated with medicines, dryness with lubricants or estrogen creams, and polyps can be easily removed. The key is not to ignore repeated or unexplained bleeding, as early review gives peace of mind and rules out anything serious.

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Dr. Arsha K Isac
I am a general dentist with 3+ years of working in real-world setups, and lemme say—every single patient teaches me something diff. It’s not just teeth honestly, it’s people… and how they feel walking into the chair. I try really hard to not make it just a “procedure thing.” I explain stuff in plain words—no confusing dental jargon, just straight talk—coz I feel like when ppl *get* what's going on, they feel safer n that makes all the difference. Worked with all ages—like, little kids who need that gentle nudge about brushing, to older folks who come in with long histories and sometimes just need someone to really sit n listen. It’s weirdly rewarding to see someone walk out lighter, not just 'coz their toothache's gone but coz they felt seen during the whole thing. A lot of ppl come in scared or just unsure, and I honestly take that seriously. I keep the vibe calm. Try to read their mood, don’t rush. I always tell myself—every smile’s got a story, even the broken ones. My thing is: comfort first, then precision. I want the outcome to last, not just look good for a week. Not tryna claim perfection or magic solutions—just consistent, clear, hands-on care where patients feel heard. I think dentistry should *fit* the person, not push them into a box. That's kinda been my philosophy from day one. And yeah, maybe sometimes I overexplain or spend a bit too long checking alignment again but hey, if it means someone eats pain-free or finally smiles wide in pics again? Worth it. Every time.
45 days ago
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Hi Parul,

Bleeding can be due to Vaginal dryness, Uterine polyps,long gap after sex, Infections or inflammations.

Use lubrication (if dryness is the issue) Gentle foreplay. Maintain hygiene – Wash before and after, avoid harsh soaps inside.

Observe the bleeding: mild and stopped quickly, it may just be a small tear. If it happens again or is heavy, consult a gynecologist.

Thank you

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Dr. Alan Reji
I'm Dr. Alan Reji, a general dentist with a deep-rooted passion for helping people achieve lasting oral health while making dental visits feel less intimidating. I graduated from Pushpagiri College of Dental Sciences (batch of 2018), and ever since, I've been committed to offering high-quality care that balances both advanced clinical knowledge and genuine compassion for my patients. Starting Dent To Smile here in Palakkad wasn’t just about opening a clinic—it was really about creating a space where people feel relaxed the moment they walk in. Dental care can feel cold or overly clinical, and I’ve always wanted to change that. So I focused on making it warm, easygoing, and centered completely around you. I mix new-age tech with some good old-fashioned values—really listening, explaining stuff without jargon, and making sure you feel involved, not just treated. From regular cleanings to fillings or even cosmetic work, I try my best to keep things smooth and stress-free. No hidden steps. No last-minute surprises. I have a strong interest in patient education and preventive dentistry. I genuinely believe most dental issues can be caught early—or even avoided—when patients are given the right information at the right time. That’s why I take time to talk, not just treat. Helping people understand why something’s happening is as important to me as treating what’s happening. At my practice, I’ve made it a point to stay current with the latest innovations—digital diagnostics, minimally invasive techniques, and smart scheduling that respects people’s time. I also try to make my services accessible and affordable, because good dental care shouldn’t be out of reach for anyone.
43 days ago
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Sex ke time par bleeding hona pehle baar ke baad bhi ho sakta hai, khaaskar agar 7–8 mahine ka gap ho, kyunki vaginal dryness, chhoti si injury, ya infection ki wajah se bleeding aa sakti hai. Kabhi-kabhi cervical ya vaginal lining mein problem (jaise polyp, infection, ya inflammation) bhi iska reason hota hai. Aapko gynecologist se consult karke pelvic examination karwana chahiye taaki exact cause pata chal sake aur sahi treatment mil sake.

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Dr. Abhishek Gill
I am a doctor with 5 years total experience, mostly split between Emergency and Obstetrics & Gynaecology—and honestly both keep you on your toes in totally different ways. In the ER, you don’t get time to second-guess much. Things come at you fast—trauma, active bleeding, breathlessness, collapsed vitals—and you learn to think, act, then think again. But in Obs/Gyn, it’s more layered. One moment you’re handling routine antenatal care, the next you're managing obstructed labour at 3am with everything depending on timing. I try not to treat anyone like "just another case." I take proper history—like actual, detailed listening—and then move step by step. Exam, investigations only if needed (not just because), and explaining things clearly to the patient and attenders. Not gonna lie, sometimes I do repeat myself twice or thrice. People are stressed, they don’t hear it all the first time. Communication I’d say is one of my stronger areas, but not in some fancy textbook way. Just knowing *how* to talk, when to pause, when not to overload info. Like with a first-time mother in pain who doesn’t care about medical terms—she just wants to know if her baby’s okay. Those moments taught me more about medicine than most of my exams. I handle postpartum issues, early pregnancy complications, PCOD, menstrual complaints, emergency contraception consults too—bit of everything. And in casualty shifts, I’ve done everything from inserting Ryle’s tubes to managing hypertensive crises. You have to stay sharp. But also know when to slow down and re-evalutate something that doesn’t fit right. Counselling’s part of the job too. Sometimes patients need reassurance more than a prescription. Sometimes they just need honesty, even if the answer isn't simple. I don’t pretend to have all the answers, but I do care enough to find them. Bit by bit. Every single day.
39 days ago
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hello, Nothing to worry about as this can be a normal phenomenon if the act is rough and there is dryness. I suggest you to follow this: 1. Use a LUBRICANT with anesthesia property 2. Use a lubricated lidocaine CONDOM 3. Do roleplay before penetration, don’t rush for it. 4. Keep your mind calm and relaxed.

If the problem continues, visit a gynaecologist for proper examination and further management. Take care

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Bleeding during or after intercourse when it’s not the first time can be concerning. There could be various reasons for it. First, it’s important to consider if there might have been any injury or trauma during intercourse as this can lead to bleeding. If there has been a significant break from sexual activity, the vaginal tissues can sometimes be more fragile and prone to tears. Another common cause can be vaginal dryness, which makes friction more likely to cause small abrasions and bleeding. The area could also be more sensitive if there’s an infection, like a yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis. It’s not uncommon for conditions such as cervical polyps or even cervical irritation from an unrelated cause to result in bleeding. Hormonal changes, perhaps related to birth control or other medication, could also play a role. Rarely, more serious conditions like cervical dysplasia or cancer could cause these symptoms, which is why it’s important not to ignore this sign. I would recommend scheduling an appointment with a healthcare professional for a thorough examination to ascertain the cause. They may perform a pelvic exam or other investigations to get a clearer understanding of the situation. In the meantime, avoid further sexual intercourse to prevent any potential exacerbation of the issue. Monitoring for additional symptoms like pain, unusual discharge, or an increase in bleeding can be valuable information to share with your doctor.

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