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I’ve been facing difficulty in getting or maintaining an erection during sexual activity. I’d like to know the possible causes and treatment options.
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6 hours ago
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I’ve been facing difficulty in getting or maintaining an erection during sexual activity. I’d like to know the possible causes and treatment options. - #14234

Humayun Khan

Hello Doctor, I have been facing some difficulty in maintaining a proper erection. I have diabetes, but it is well controlled. I would like to know if I can take Sildenafil, and if yes, what dosage would be safe to start with. Kindly advise.

Age: 39
Chronic illnesses: Hello Doctor, I have been facing some difficulty in maintaining a proper erection. I have diabetes, but it is well controlled. I would like to know if I can take Sildenafil, and if yes, what dosage would be safe to start with. Kindly advise.
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Dr. Arsha K Isac
I am a general dentist with 3+ years of working in real-world setups, and lemme say—every single patient teaches me something diff. It’s not just teeth honestly, it’s people… and how they feel walking into the chair. I try really hard to not make it just a “procedure thing.” I explain stuff in plain words—no confusing dental jargon, just straight talk—coz I feel like when ppl *get* what's going on, they feel safer n that makes all the difference. Worked with all ages—like, little kids who need that gentle nudge about brushing, to older folks who come in with long histories and sometimes just need someone to really sit n listen. It’s weirdly rewarding to see someone walk out lighter, not just 'coz their toothache's gone but coz they felt seen during the whole thing. A lot of ppl come in scared or just unsure, and I honestly take that seriously. I keep the vibe calm. Try to read their mood, don’t rush. I always tell myself—every smile’s got a story, even the broken ones. My thing is: comfort first, then precision. I want the outcome to last, not just look good for a week. Not tryna claim perfection or magic solutions—just consistent, clear, hands-on care where patients feel heard. I think dentistry should *fit* the person, not push them into a box. That's kinda been my philosophy from day one. And yeah, maybe sometimes I overexplain or spend a bit too long checking alignment again but hey, if it means someone eats pain-free or finally smiles wide in pics again? Worth it. Every time.
4 hours ago
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Hello,

Please consult your urologist or diabetologist before starting Sildenafil to confirm it’s safe with your current health and medicines.

They can also screen for hormonal or vascular causes and suggest long-term management.

You can likely use Sildenafil safely at 50 mg as a starting dose, if you’re not on nitrates and your heart health is stable.

Maintain good diabetic control, exercise, and follow up with your doctor for tailored advice.

You can check hormonal profile Due to diabetes,blood flow to the penis also get affected.

Anyway my advice is please consult your physician first ,then start taking medicine

I trust this helps Thank you

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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
1 hour ago
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This requires personal consultation. Counselling is needed before treatment initiation.

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