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paralysed person - #14906

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I am feeling really overwhelmed right now and not sure what to do. My brother was in an accident last month and now he's a paralysed person. I mean, one minute he was fine, and the next he's stuck in a wheelchair, and it's like, everything has changed. He used to be so active and now he's a paralysed person struggling with daily activities. We’ve been trying to get him the best help, but I keep wondering how do we even start to help a paralysed person? He’s doing some physical therapy but it seems like progress is super slow. Are there specific exercises or therapies that have worked for other paralysed persons? And what about mental health? I can see he’s feeling really down, like he’s totally lost his sense of purpose. Is there any advice out there for helping a paralysed person cope emotionally? I just want to be supportive but I feel like I don’t know what to say or do sometimes. Anyone have experience with helping a paralysed person? What do you recommend? Thanks for reading this.

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When someone suddenly becomes paralyzed, the journey ahead can indeed seem daunting, both for them and their loved ones. The key is a combination of physical rehabilitation, psychological support, and comprehensive lifestyle adjustments. Your brother’s engagement in physical therapy (PT) is already a positive step; it’s crucial to stay consistent with these sessions as neuroplasticity and muscle training can take time. Each person’s progress rate varies, so patience is essential. Besides PT, consider adding occupational therapy (OT), which focuses on enabling participation in daily activities through adaptive techniques and tools tailored to his condition. With exercises, mobility-targeted routines, like those involving passive and active range roles, are common. Devices such as FES (Functional Electrical Stimulation) may also assist in strengthening muscles below the level of paralysis.

The psychological aspect is equally significant. Encourage your brother to consult with a psychologist or a counselor specializing in adjustment to disability. They can provide coping strategies and work on rebuilding self-esteem and identity. Support groups are hugely helpful too; they provide a sense of belonging and shared experiences with others facing similar challenges. If your brother’s mental health issues seem severe, with signs of depression or extreme withdrawal, contacting a psychiatrist might be necessary for more intensive intervention. Aim to maintain open communication, offering support by listening and acknowledging his feelings without offering solutions unless sought. Ensure he has access to recreational activities and potentially new hobbies that could raise his interest and motivation. As difficult as it might be, each small step taken in various domains – physical, emotional, social – gradually builds progress. Continue advocating for his needs while remaining patient, understanding that this recovery and adjustment process takes time.

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