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Question #19137
65 days ago
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How I can help my sick daughter - #19137

Anisia

Hi, I’m a mom and my daughter has been sick all day. She’s 3 years old. Today she had one episode of actual vomiting, then a few times she just spit up. She’s also had some diarrhea. Her fever has been around 100.1 for a bit and then I gave her Tylenol around 5:30 pm, and her fever went down before she fell asleep around 7:30 pm. She’s been sleeping on and off since then, but while sleeping her breathing seems a little fast, which is making me nervous but she's not wheezing or anything. I’d really appreciate any guidance on whether it’s okay to continue monitoring her at home or if she should be seen, and what signs I should watch for that mean I need to bring her in right away.

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
64 days ago
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Hello dear See I think probably it is viral infection. Medication you are already taking. Please take them 6 hourly on requirement only In addition Please do cold water application on head and feet Avoid heavy meals Take light food like Dalia or khichdi In case of no improvement in 1 week consult pediatrician in person for better clarity Regards

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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
64 days ago
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Right now, based on what you’ve described: It is reasonable to continue monitoring her at home Focus on fluids, rest, and fever control Keep a close eye on breathing and hydration

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Dr. Arsha K Isac
I am a general dentist with 3+ years of working in real-world setups, and lemme say—every single patient teaches me something diff. It’s not just teeth honestly, it’s people… and how they feel walking into the chair. I try really hard to not make it just a “procedure thing.” I explain stuff in plain words—no confusing dental jargon, just straight talk—coz I feel like when ppl *get* what's going on, they feel safer n that makes all the difference. Worked with all ages—like, little kids who need that gentle nudge about brushing, to older folks who come in with long histories and sometimes just need someone to really sit n listen. It’s weirdly rewarding to see someone walk out lighter, not just 'coz their toothache's gone but coz they felt seen during the whole thing. A lot of ppl come in scared or just unsure, and I honestly take that seriously. I keep the vibe calm. Try to read their mood, don’t rush. I always tell myself—every smile’s got a story, even the broken ones. My thing is: comfort first, then precision. I want the outcome to last, not just look good for a week. Not tryna claim perfection or magic solutions—just consistent, clear, hands-on care where patients feel heard. I think dentistry should *fit* the person, not push them into a box. That's kinda been my philosophy from day one. And yeah, maybe sometimes I overexplain or spend a bit too long checking alignment again but hey, if it means someone eats pain-free or finally smiles wide in pics again? Worth it. Every time.
64 days ago
5

Hello,

Likely a viral infection For now, monitoring at home is appropriate

Give small, frequent sips of fluids Use Tylenol for comfort if fever returns. Let her rest; fast breathing during sleep can happen with fever.

If She has no urine for 8–10 hours, very dry mouth, or is hard to wake. Fever ≥102°F or lasting >2–3 days. Repeated vomiting Then Please go to ER

You’re doing the right things keep monitoring and focusing on hydration.

Thank you dear

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Dr. Prasannajeet Singh Shekhawat
I am a 2023 batch passout and working as a general physician right now, based in Hanumangarh, Rajasthan. Still kinda new in the bigger picture maybe, but honestly—every single day in this line teaches you more than textbooks ever could. I’ve had the chance to work under some pretty respected doctors during and after my graduation, not just for the clinical part but also to see how they handle people, real people, in pain, in panic, and sometimes just confused about their own health. General medicine covers a lot, right? Like from the smallest complaints to those random, vague symptoms that no one really understands at first—those are kinda my zone now. I don’t really rush to label things, I try to spend time actually listening. Feels weird to say it but ya, I do take that part seriously. Some patients just need someone to hear the whole story instead of jumping to prescription pads after 30 seconds. Right now, my practice includes everything from managing common infections, blood pressure issues, sugar problems to more layered cases where symptoms overlap and you gotta just... piece things together. It's not glamorous all the time, but it's real. I’ve handled a bunch of seasonal disease waves too, like dengue surges and viral fevers that hit rural belts hard—Hanumangarh doesn’t get much spotlight but there’s plenty happening out here. Also, I do rely on basics—thorough history, solid clinical exam and yeah when needed, investigations. But not over-prescribing things just cz they’re there. One thing I picked up from the senior consultants I worked with—they used to say “don’t chase labs, chase the patient’s story”... stuck with me till now. Anyway, still learning every single day tbh. But I like that. Keeps me grounded and kind of obsessed with trying to get better.
64 days ago
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Hello Anisia You’re doing a great job keeping track of your daughter’s symptoms and caring for her. Based on what you’ve described—mild fever, one episode of vomiting, some diarrhea, and faster breathing while sleeping (but no wheezing or distress)—it’s likely she has a mild viral stomach infection, which is common in young children.

When to Monitor at Home: - She’s alert when awake, making eye contact, and responding normally. - She’s able to drink fluids and keep some down, even if she’s not eating much. - Her urine output is normal (at least 3-4 wet diapers or pees in 24 hours). - Breathing is a bit fast but not labored (no sucking in at the ribs, grunting, or flaring nostrils).

When to Seek Medical Attention Immediately: - She’s very drowsy, difficult to wake, or not responding as usual. - She’s breathing very fast, is struggling to breathe, or you see chest retractions (skin pulling in at the ribs or neck). - She can’t keep any fluids down (vomiting everything or refusing to drink). - She has no urine for 8 hours or shows signs of dehydration (dry mouth, no tears when crying, sunken eyes). - Her fever is above 102°F (39°C) and not coming down with medication, or she develops a new rash. - She has persistent vomiting or blood in vomit/stool.

What You Can Do at Home: - Offer small sips of water, ORS (oral rehydration solution), or coconut water frequently. - Avoid forcing her to eat; focus on fluids. - Keep her comfortable and let her rest. - Continue to monitor her breathing and overall alertness.

Thank you

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Based on what you’ve described, it sounds like your daughter may have a mild viral gastroenteritis, which is common in children and can lead to symptoms like vomiting, diarrhea, and fever. The key points to focus on at home are hydration, comfort, and monitoring for any changes. For hydration, ensure she’s drinking small sips of clear fluids or an oral rehydration solution if she’s tolerating it. Even if she’s not very interested in drinking, encourage frequent small amounts. With vomiting, avoid giving large volumes of fluids at once. Diarrhea can lead to dehydration, so this piece is critical. For comfort, continue using a fever reducer like acetaminophen or ibuprofen as needed, following the dosing instructions on the label based on her weight. You mentioned she had a slightly fast breathing rate while sleeping—monitor this, as an increased rate without other respiratory distress like wheezing might not be urgently concerning, but keep an eye on it. Red flags include difficulty breathing, persistent high fever that isn’t responding to medication, significant lethargy, if her lips or skin start to look blue, or if she’s unable to keep any fluids down at all. If any of these occur, or if you simply feel something is off, it’s wise to have her seen by a healthcare professional. Otherwise, observing at home is a reasonable approach. Reassess if her condition isn’t starting to improve or if symptoms worsen over the next 24 hours. Remember, young children can become dehydrated quickly, so watch her fluid intake and urine output closely. If she’s not urinating every six hours or shows dry mouth or lack of tears, she may need medical evaluation.

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