I suffer from being underweight and having a strong sex drive, but weak control and premature ejaculation. - #19304
I suffer from significant weight loss, increased sexual sensitivity and heightened arousal, lack of control over the duration of intercourse, ejaculation occurring in less than a minute, sudden increases in libido, and occasional anxiety. My hormones have been tested and are all normal. I am currently unable to see a doctor.
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Hello,
Likely causes Functional / neuro-chemical imbalance (high adrenaline and dopamine) Anxiety and performance stress Conditioned fast ejaculation habits Increased nerve sensitivity due to low body weight Weak pelvic floor muscle control
Key points This is common and reversible, especially at your age It is not infertility and not permanent damage
What helps Pelvic floor (Kegel) exercises daily Slowing sexual stimulation; avoid rushed masturbation Nervous-system calming: good sleep, less caffeine, no porn Gradual weight gain with regular, calorie-dense meals Start–stop and squeeze techniques during sex Thicker or mild-delay condoms if needed
Your symptoms are most consistent with anxiety-related premature ejaculation worsened by being underweight, not a hormonal disease.
With lifestyle changes and training, significant improvement is very likely.
I trust this helps Thank you
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