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Question #19945
2 hours ago
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Erectile dysfunction due to stress and psychological barriers - #19945

Hichem

About a month and a half ago, my girlfriend and I were about to have sex when I experienced erectile dysfunction at the start of intercourse. However, I have a good erection if penetration isn't the goal. My girlfriend's reaction was very negative, which exacerbated the problem, and it has worsened over time. I think the first time this happened was just due to mild fatigue, but we've tried it several times since. Every time we try, we fail to achieve penetration, and the erection weakens very quickly. This is causing me psychological distress. Please help me as soon as possible.

Age: 18
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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
2 hours ago
5

This presentation is most consistent with psychogenic (performance-related) erectile dysfunction triggered by an initial episode of fatigue and reinforced by anxiety and a negative partner reaction. The ability to achieve and maintain erections when penetration is not the goal strongly indicates that the physical mechanisms of erection are normal, especially given the patient’s young age of 18. Repeated failed attempts have likely created a cycle of fear and heightened performance pressure, which interferes with erections during intercourse attempts. This condition is common, reversible, and does not indicate permanent sexual dysfunction. With reduced pressure, supportive communication, and if needed short-term professional guidance, full recovery is expected

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Hichem
Client
2 hours ago

Is there a solution to avoid this problem permanently? Our sexual relationship was very good at the beginning, and I never suffered from erectile dysfunction, but since that incident, the problem has continued until today. Thank you

Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
2 hours ago
5

Sleep well

Avoid pornography temporarily (can worsen performance anxiety)

Light exercise

No alcohol before intimacy

Don’t take medicine at this age. Try to work with your partner. For better assistance take In person consultation.

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