What do I need to do to recover from prostate orgasm - #20483
Hello 1 year ago I inserted my finger into the anus and since then I have an orgasm in the anus when I ejaculate first in the anal area then towards the penis how could I return only to the normal one through the penis? I want methods to get back to normal what I should do
100% Anonymously
No sign-up needed.

Doctors’ responses
Hello dear See the history you are telling seems completely normal. However there can be chances of nerve irritation. Iam suggesting some tests Please get them done and share result with gynaecologist or sexologist in person for better clarity Scrotum USG Urine analysis Esr Serum testosterone Please donot take any medication without consulting the concerned physician Regards
You are experiencing a learned prostate-dominant orgasm pattern, not a medical problem. By stopping anal stimulation, relaxing the pelvic floor, reducing anxiety, and consistently refocusing arousal on penile sensation, your nervous system can re-adapt and return orgasm to a more penis-focused experience. Recovery is gradual but very achievable.
Hello,
What you’re experiencing is not damage or a disease.
Prostate (anal) stimulation activated a new orgasm pathway in the nervous system; this is normal and reversible.
Your body is healthy, and nothing is permanently changed.
What to do to return to penis-focused orgasm:
Stop all anal/prostate stimulation Stimulate only the penis during masturbation/sex (slow, simple stimulation) Relax the pelvic floor (deep breathing, avoid squeezing) Reduce anxiety and over-focusing on where orgasm starts Be consistent and patient (usually normalizes in 4–12 weeks)
No treatment or medicine is needed unless there is pain, burning urination, blood in semen, numbness, or erectile problems.
This is a learned sensation pattern, and with time and retraining, orgasm sensation usually shifts back to the penis.
I trust its clear ans helpful Thank you
Hi there,
What’s happening: - You’re experiencing prostate-triggered orgasm due to past stimulation. - Sensation is starting in the anal area, then moving to the penis. - This is a normal physiological response, not permanent damage.
What you can do: 1. Avoid anal stimulation completely for several weeks. 2. Focus on penile stimulation only during masturbation/sex. 3. Perform Kegel exercises daily to strengthen pelvic floor muscles. 4. Stay relaxed – anxiety can intensify the sensation. 5. Consult a urologist in person if it persists for proper evaluation.
This is reversible with time and the right approach.
— Dr. Nikhil Chauhan (Urologist)
Hello On It sounds like you’re experiencing a change in your sexual response after that experience. This can happen, and it’s understandable to want to return to your previous sensations. Here are a few suggestions that might help:
What You Can Try - Focus on Penile Stimulation: During sexual activity, concentrate on stimulation of the penis alone. This may help retrain your body to associate orgasm primarily with penile stimulation. - Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles can help improve control over orgasm and may help you regain the sensations you desire. - Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Sometimes, anxiety or focus on the change can affect sexual response. Practicing mindfulness or relaxation techniques can help you feel more comfortable and connected to your body. - Gradual Desensitization: If you feel comfortable, you might try gradually reducing anal stimulation over time to help your body adjust back to the sensations from the penis.
Pelvic Floor Exercises (Kegel Exercises) These exercises strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which can improve control over orgasm and enhance sensations. 1. Identify the Muscles: - To find your pelvic floor muscles, try to stop urination midstream. The muscles you use are the ones you want to strengthen. 2. Kegel Exercise Steps: - Contract: Tighten your pelvic floor muscles and hold for 3-5 seconds. - Relax: Release the muscles and rest for 3-5 seconds. - Repeat: Aim for 10-15 repetitions, 3 times a day. 3. Progression: - As you get stronger, try to hold the contractions for longer (up to 10 seconds) and increase the number of repetitions.
Mindfulness Techniques Mindfulness can help you focus on the present moment and reduce anxiety about sexual performance. 1. Deep Breathing: - Sit or lie down comfortably. Inhale deeply through your nose, allowing your abdomen to rise. Exhale slowly through your mouth. Repeat for a few minutes. 2. Body Scan: - Close your eyes and focus on each part of your body, starting from your toes and moving up to your head. Notice any sensations without judgment. 3. Mindful Masturbation: - When you’re comfortable, try to engage in self-pleasure while focusing solely on the sensations in your penis. Avoid any distractions and concentrate on what feels good. 4. Guided Meditation: - Consider using apps or online resources for guided meditations focused on relaxation and body awareness.
Consistency is Key Try to practice these exercises and techniques regularly for the best results. It may take time to notice changes, so be patient with yourself.
Thank you
100% Anonymously
Get expert answers anytime, completely confidential. No sign-up needed.
About our doctors
Only qualified doctors who have confirmed the availability of medical education and other certificates of medical practice consult on our service. You can check the qualification confirmation in the doctor's profile.