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Sexual Health & Wellness
Question #22091
266 days ago
492

how to increase sex time

Tara

I am really struggling with something personal and need some advice on how to increase sex time. My partner and I have been together for a few years now, and you know, things were great in the beginning, but lately, it's like we just can't last long in bed! It's kinda embarrassing honestly. We’ve tried a few things like taking things slow, and even switching positions, but nothing seems to work. Initially, we would go for like 30 minutes, but now it’s down to maybe 5-10 minutes on a good day, which just isn’t doing it for either of us. I even looked up how to increase sex time online, but most of the stuff I found was kinda vague or just didn’t seem practical? I’m also worried that this could put a strain on our relationship if we can't figure it out. I've read that stress and some foods play a role too, but I'm not sure what changes to make. Is there any recommended exercises or maybe tips or products that really work? Asking how to increase sex time feels sorta awkward, but I just want us both to enjoy this part of our relationship again. Please, any personal experiences or advice would be super helpful!

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There could be a few factors at play, and it’s good that you’re actively seeking solutions. Let’s start with some practical approaches. First, consider focusing on your overall health, both mentally and physically. Stress, anxiety, and lifestyle factors, like sedentary habits or poor diet, can impact sexual performance. Regular exercise can boost your stamina, improve cardiovascular health, and enhance overall mood, all of which are important in this context.

You could try pelvic floor exercises, such as Kegels, which help both men and women strengthen the pelvic muscles. For men, this can help with control and endurance, and they’re usually simple to practice regularly. Aim to build this into a daily routine – like doing a few sets of 10 reps. Also, pay attention to diet; opt for foods that boost blood flow and stamina – like those rich in omega-3 fatty acids, zinc, and antioxidants.

In terms of products, topical creams or desensitizing sprays are options to consider. These can help delay ejaculation, but they may not work for everyone and might require some trial and error. Be cautious of any over-the-counter supplements, as their efficacy and safety are often not guaranteed by reliable research.

Communication with your partner is also key. Exploring different forms of intimacy that don’t focus solely on penetration can be beneficial, and experimenting with foreplay and different types of touch can help ease some of the pressure.

Additionally, consider seeking advice from a healthcare professional or a therapist specializing in sexual health if these changes don’t bring the desired effect. They can help identify any underlying medical issues or more specific interventions tailored to your situation.

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