I had intimate moment with my partner no intercourse but we are in doubt. - #11434
I had intimate moment with my partner today. The penis was never inserted into the vagina. But the penis was rubbed intensely. Because of that ejaculation happened and sperm was all over the vagina. We washed it immediately. But we are in doubt that will it cause pregnancy. If it might cause pregnancy then which pills should she take. Because she has allergy in blood and she's anaemic. Can I know more about this
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If it washed thoroughly the chances of pregnancy are almost zero,for assurance you can take upt test after 14 days
For anemia i would suggest you to get a cbc with peripheral blood smear Iron profile Vit b12 done
Hello dear If u had intimate then might be chance of penis penetration possibility so get pregnancy kit test by fresh morning urine sample on your first expected day of first day of month of cycle If come positive then consult to gyncologist
Pregnancy is possible but low risk in your case since there was no penetration, but sperm on the vaginal area can still rarely enter and cause pregnancy. If it has been within 72 hours, your partner can take an emergency contraceptive pill (like levonorgestrel 1.5 mg), but since she is anaemic and has blood-related allergies, it is very important she consults a gynecologist before taking it to ensure safety. For long-term safety, you both should discuss reliable contraception methods with a specialist to avoid repeated emergency pill use.
Hello dear See as per clinical history it doesn’t seems physical contact of penis with vagina Usually there must be insertion of penis along with ejaculation of sperms. In your case, It is just superficial which is not capable of causing pregnancy. However if you are in doubt Please get pregnancy strip test ( blood - beta HCG) after 3 -4 days. Kindly take any medications only after sharing the reports with gynacolologist in person for better clarification. Avoid any ocd to prevent further side-effects Hopefully your query seems solved Regards
Hello , as there are very minor chances your could be pregnant because even condom and all other methods of conception have a failure rate so possibility of pregnancy couldn’t be denied 100% but you need not panic. Just closely monitor the menstrual cycle and take a UPT test preferably at 2 weeks and 4 weeks (in case periods are delayed) and then take action accordingly.
Hello Friend, There are chances of pregnancy as sperms can travel further. Before ejaculation, there is a phase called as pre-ejaculate release which contains sufficient sperms required for pregnancy. But it also depends upon your ovulation days and sperm related factors.
If you wish to take a pill, then consult the gynaecologist or we can have in person consultation. If you want to continue the pregnancy, then perform Urine pregnancy test after your missed dates.
i am available for your further doubts. Take care.
Pregnancy can occur whenever sperm comes into contact with the vaginal area, as it is possible for sperm to swim up the vagina to fertilize an egg. In the situation you described, there’s a chance of pregnancy if live sperm contacted the vaginal opening. In such cases, taking an emergency contraceptive pill (ECP) within a specific timeframe can reduce the risk of pregnancy. The commonly used pills are levonorgestrel and ulipristal acetate. Levonorgestrel is available over-the-counter in many places and should be taken within 72 hours of the incident. Ulipristal acetate can be used up to 120 hours after but requires a prescription. However, considering your partner’s conditions—anemia and allergy-related concerns—it’s crucial to speak with a healthcare provider first for guidance tailored to her specific needs. They can provide information on potential side effects and more appropriate options if needed. Timing is critical for ECP effectiveness, so it’s advisable to seek medical counsel as soon as possible. Remember, though these pills are effective, they should not be used as a regular contraception, but only in emergencies. Additionally, future prevention methods should be considered, like condoms or discussing other suitable birth control options with a healthcare professional. For now, focus on obtaining and acting on professional advice swiftly to address the immediate concern safely.
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