Should I be worried on ectopic she isn't pregnant! - #16669
OnOctober 27th we had sex and we had condom slip incident and we are not sure did semen got in or not but I had i pill just after that in one hour and the next day also I had one together 2 in one circle,this is my periods dates for last 4 month Circle periods July 13 August 10 Sep 5 October 2 October2 was my last period and i supposed to get my periods as this dates onOctober29,30 till now i haven'tgot my periods till today 22 November and i tested urin pregnancy test today which was negetive and right next day to I checked my urine and it also said negetive with done morning urin test ,this test can read hCG of 25mlU/ml. And after waiting she had periods onNovember 28th on all bleeding everythinge ended and we are happy onDecember1 she is havingback pelvic pain and center shoulder pain , google is saying its ectopic pregnancy, am worried could you help this!
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If you believe in Google take treatment from google. Don’t be fool please.
Most likely reasons:
Post-period pelvic cramping (very common) Gas / constipation Muscle strain Anxiety leading to muscle tension Mild hormonal imbalance after taking 2 i-Pills
The emergency pill can cause:
Back pain Shoulder/neck pain Period delay Hormonal discomfort These effects are normal and temporary.
Hello dear As per clinical history shared by you it seems normal period with pain due to hormonal alterations It is not related with pregnancy since you have already taken I pill which prevented reproductive cycle for pregnancy Also your blood report seems negative So all theses finding point towards normal hormonal cycles However for any further evaluation please consult gynaecologist in person for better clarity Regards
Hello Sheetal I understand your concern, especially after the condom slip and the subsequent events. It’s good that you had your period on November 28th, as this typically indicates that you are not pregnant.
Key Points: - Negative Pregnancy Tests:Since you tested negative for pregnancy after the incident and she got her period, it’s unlikely that she is pregnant. Home pregnancy tests are quite reliable, especially when taken after a missed period. - Pelvic and Shoulder Pain: While ectopic pregnancy can cause pain, it usually occurs before a missed period and is often accompanied by other symptoms like severe abdominal pain, dizziness, or abnormal bleeding. Since she had her period, it’s less likely to be related to pregnancy.
Possible Causes of Pain: - Menstrual Cramps:Pain can be common during or after a period due to uterine contractions. - Ovulation Pain: If her cycle is returning to normal, she might be experiencing ovulation pain. - Other Causes:Conditions like ovarian cysts, pelvic inflammatory disease, or gastrointestinal issues can also cause similar pain.
What to Do: - Monitor Symptoms: If the pain persists, worsens, or is accompanied by other concerning symptoms (like heavy bleeding, fever, or severe discomfort), it’s important to consult a gynecologist - Stay Calm: While it’s natural to worry, many causes of pelvic pain are not serious and can be managed effectively.
Thank you
Hi Sheetal,
Good to hear back from you again. You are fine now, don’t google too much.
You took an emergency contraceptive pill within one hour after a condom slip, which is good for prevention.
Your expected period got delayed, but urine pregnancy tests (even sensitive ones) were negative.
You finally had your period and bleeding on November 28, so pregnancy is highly unlikely.
Back pain and shoulder pain are mostly not related to ectopic pregnancy if your periods resumed and pregnancy tests are negative.If pain is severe or there are symptoms like fainting, heavy bleeding, or persistent abdominal pain, please see a doctor for safety.
Best wishes, Dr Nikhil Chauhan, Urologist
Hello,
The pain on Dec 1 is not from ectopic pregnancy,it’s most likely muscle stress or hormonal pain/ Gas / acidity.
You both are safe. ❤️
And please don’t google your symptoms, it will show cancer instead of migraine for a mild headache 😇
I hope i resolved your concern Thank you
It sounds like you’re concerned about the possibility of ectopic pregnancy in a situation where all pregnancy tests have been negative and the menstruation occurred on November 28th. First, an important clarification: ectopic pregnancies are characterized by the implantation of a fertilized egg outside the uterus, often accompanied by positive pregnancy tests due to elevated hCG levels. Since multiple urine pregnancy tests have returned negative, the likelihood of pregnancy is substantially reduced, including ectopic pregnancy. Additionally, menstruation on November 28 further decreases the probability of an ongoing pregnancy, as bleeding of this kind is less indicative of an ectopic scenario.
That being said, the symptoms like back and pelvic pain can have many causes, not just pregnancy-related issues. These include muscle strain, urinary tract infections and even gastrointestinal problems. When shoulder pain is involved, it could be related to many non-obstetric reasons, but you did the right thing seeking for more information since it may be linked in rare scenarios to referred pain from the abdomen (in cases such as ruptured ectopic pregnancies). Keep in mind, Google can sometimes lead to unnecessary worries without context.
For these symptoms, it’s prudent to have a full evaluation by a healthcare professional to rule out any serious concerns and identify the cause. You might need a physical exam or possibly some imaging tests. Meanwhile, staying hydrated, avoiding strenuous activities, and using over-the-counter pain relief as needed can help manage discomfort. If the pain intensifies, becomes sharp, or if you notice other concerning symptoms, seeking immediate medical attention is crucial. Stay cautious but don’t over panic—turn to reliable healthcare support to guide you in understanding these symptoms better.
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