I am pregnant or not getting confused - #11400

Hi Sunita, thanks for sharing all the details 🌸

Let’s look at this step by step: 1. Your cycle dates • Last period: 14th August • Usual delay: Yes, you mentioned your periods are often irregular. • Today (3rd September): You noticed some bleeding. That makes it about 20 days since your last period started. 2. Sexual activity • 19th August → Protected sex (low chance of pregnancy). • 2nd September → Unprotected sex (this was close to the expected ovulation window if your cycles are ~28–32 days, but since your periods are irregular it’s hard to predict). 3. Bleeding today (3rd September) • Could be early period, • Could be implantation bleeding (if pregnancy occurred around 19–20 Aug, though you used protection then), • Or could just be hormonal spotting since your cycles are irregular and weight is low. 4. Pregnancy possibility • Pregnancy from 19th Aug (protected sex) is very unlikely. • Pregnancy risk from 2nd Sept (unprotected sex) exists, but it is too early to show pregnancy signs or bleeding the very next day. Implantation bleeding doesn’t happen within 24 hrs; it usually happens 6–12 days later.

🛑So, today’s bleeding is not from pregnancy on 2nd Sept. Most likely it is your period starting early or irregular spotting.

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✅ What you should do • Wait at least 10–14 days after the unprotected sex (2nd Sept) before doing a urine pregnancy test. • If your bleeding continues like a normal period, pregnancy is unlikely. • If bleeding is very light and stops quickly, still do a test around 12–15 Sept. • Because of irregular cycles + low weight, your periods may be unpredictable.

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⚠️ See a doctor if • Bleeding is unusually heavy, • You get severe pain, • Or if your periods remain very irregular and weight continues to stay very low.

Hello Sunitha,

You had spotting /bleeding just one day after unprotected sex, we cannot really role out the pregnancy. Please do Urine pregnancy test after 10th of September and if you having heavy bleeding means you should visit nearest gynaecologist.

With regards

Hello As i see you are saying that you are having per vaginal bleed that suggest you are on periods and chances of pregnancy are rare still i would suggest you to have upt done regards

It sounds like there are a few things going on that could be influencing your menstrual cycle, and it’s good you’re keeping track of these details. The late arrival of your period might not necessarily mean pregnancy, especially since you mentioned having lower body weight and history of delayed periods, both of which can affect your menstrual cycle regularity. However, having unprotected sex can increase the risk of pregnancy. Since you bled this morning, this could be the start of your period, or it might be implantation bleeding if you were indeed pregnant from the recent unprotected encounter. Implantation bleeding usually occurs around 10-14 days after conception and is usually light and short.

To clarify your situation, you could take a home pregnancy test, which can often provide accurate results when taken at least a week after a missed period or around two weeks post-ovulation (or the unprotected sex incident). This might give you a clearer idea of whether pregnancy is a factor here. Additionally, considering you’ve had instances of unprotected intercourse, discussing contraception options with a healthcare provider could help reduce these uncertainties moving forward.

If your bleeding pattern seems out of the ordinary—if it’s considerably heavier, accompanied by severe pain, or unusual in any other way—it’s worth consulting with a healthcare provider. They can help determine if there’s another underlying issue needing attention. Keeping a regular track of your cycle and symptoms in a diary might also be useful in identifying patterns or irregularities, making it easier to share accurate information with a doctor if further assessment is required.