How to get pregnant when u have irregular periods - #11584
I have irregular periods and I m married it's been3 years and now from last month I trying to get pregnant but my result was negative so plzz suggest me ways that I can concive this month and what are the sings of early pregnancy and is it OK to have sex after conceiveing
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Investigation
TSH, Prolactin, FSH, LH, AMH, Testosterone Pelvic ultrasound Husband’s serum analysis
Advice
Use ovulation predictor kits (LH urine strips) from day 10 of cycle. If your cycle is 28-30 days have intercourse between 10-20 of your cycle
Start by tracking ovulation using kits + timed intercourse. Rule out thyroid/PCOS/hormonal issues. If cycles remain irregular, ovulation induction medicines can help you conceive quickly under medical guidance. Sex is safe after pregnancy is confirmed, unless complications arise
1. Irregular periods make ovulation unpredictable, so tracking ovulation through ultrasound or home LH kits will improve your chances of conceiving.
2. Lifestyle changes like maintaining healthy weight, balanced diet, and regular exercise help in regulating cycles and improving fertility.
3. A gynecologist may prescribe medicines like clomiphene or letrozole to induce ovulation if cycles remain irregular.
4. Early pregnancy signs include missed period, breast tenderness, nausea, fatigue, and frequent urination.
5. Having sex after conception is generally safe in normal pregnancies unless your doctor advises restriction due to complications.
6. Since you have been trying for 3 years, it is strongly recommended to meet a fertility specialist for a detailed evaluation of both partners.
Irregular periods can make it harder to know your fertile days, so tracking ovulation (with ovulation kits, basal body temperature, or follicular scan) and having regular intercourse around that time can improve your chances. Early signs of pregnancy include missed period, breast tenderness, nausea, fatigue, and frequent urination, but a urine pregnancy test after a missed period is the most reliable first step. It is completely safe to have sex after conceiving unless your gynecologist advises restrictions due to complications—please consult a gynecologist for a fertility workup and personalized guidance.
Hello dear See irregular periods do depict chances of either hormonal fluctuations or metabolic rate changes There can even be chances of pcos which is a nazir barrier for pregnancy Iam suggesting some tests for confirmation Please share them with gynacolologist for further details Serum TSH Serum Prolactin Pregnancy strip test blood beta HCG (after 7-10days) RBS Pelvic ultrasound Transabdominal USG if recommended RBS Urine analysis Kindly share the results with gynacolologist in person for better clarification. Please take any medicine or treatment after confirmation from concerned physician. Yes sex can be done after conceiving but after some time ( gap) Hopefully your query got solved Regards
Hi SUBIYA,
A:For getting pregnant;
1.You can track Ovulation-Use ovulation predictor kits (OPKs) at home (urine strips that detect hormone).
2.Sex Timing
Have sex every 2–3 days throughout the cycle (so you don’t miss ovulation).
Or, if using OPK → have sex daily around the 2–3 fertile days after positive test.
B:Signs of pregnancy; Missed period Breast tenderness, heaviness Nausea, tiredness Increased urination Light spotting
For confirmation you can check Urine pregnancy test (UPT) 14 days after ovulation / missed period.
C:Sex after conception
Yes, it’s safe to have sex in early pregnancy, but you should follow your gynaecologist advice.
If cycles are very irregular, consult a gynaecologist in person and undergo ultrasound and some blood tests.
Thank you dear
Hello SUBIYA, For the conception, firstly you should get proper treatment for your irregular periods. Irregular periods decreases the chances of ovulation and ultimately conception.
Get these tests done: 1. CBC 2. Thyroid profile 3. Serum Prolactin 4. Serum LH and FSH 5. Ultrasound-Pelvis & Lower abdomen. Consult a gynaec doctor.
Maintain a healthy lifestyle with good diet, reduced stress, regular exercise.
Take care
Hi , i am a reproductive medicine specialist with 5+ years of experience . So u need to get some hormones test done and an usg . Usually correcting the hormone imbalance will regularise your cycle and help you concieve . A faster way would be to consult a reproductive medicine specialist . They might call you for a few scans that is called folliculometry , where they will see if the follicle is growing or not . And then they will advise you when to have intercourse depending upin your follicle size .
Irregular periods can make conception harder because ovulation may not be regular, so tracking ovulation through kits or scans can improve your chances. Early pregnancy signs may include missed periods, breast tenderness, nausea, fatigue, and mild cramps, but a urine pregnancy test or blood test confirms it. It is generally safe to have sex in early pregnancy unless your doctor advises otherwise, so please consult a gynecologist for fertility guidance and personalized care.
Hello Subiya, I understand your concern. Since you have irregular periods and are trying to conceive, here is some advice frim my side -
Steps to improve chances of pregnancy:
Track ovulation: With irregular cycles, ovulation may not occur regularly. You can use ovulation kits or monitor cervical mucus to identify fertile days.
Maintain a healthy lifestyle: Balanced diet, regular exercise, proper sleep, avoid stress.
Have intercourse every 2–3 days around your expected fertile window (usually day 10–20 of cycle, but may vary if cycles are irregular).
Medical help:
Since your periods are irregular, you should get done some tests - Ultrasound of Abdomen+Pelvis, Thyroid Profile, Hormone Profile (Prolactin, FSH, LH, Testosterone) and consult a gynecologist or a family physician with reports. You can share the reports with me as well.
Sometimes medicines are given to help induce ovulation.
In a normal pregnancy, in earlier stages, it is generally safe to have sex, but my advise would be to avoid it, but consult your treating obstetrician/family physician before having sex during pregnancy.
Since you’ve been married for 3 years and now starting to try, I suggest a fertility evaluation (for you and your partner) if you don’t conceive within 6–12 months of trying regularly.
Feel free to reach out.
Regards, Dr. Nirav Jain MBBS, DNB D.Fam.Med
Irregular periods can indeed make conception a bit more challenging, as it can be harder to predict your fertile window. However, there are steps you can take to improve your chances of getting pregnant. Start by tracking your menstrual cycles using an app or calendar to help identify any patterns, which can notify you about when you might be ovulating. Ovulation usually occurs about 14 days before your next period is due, but this can vary. You might also consider using ovulation predictor kits, which detect the surge in luteinizing hormone that precedes ovulation. These kits can help you more accurately time intercourse. It’s advisable to have sex every 2-3 days throughout your cycle to maximize the chances. Ensuring both you and your partner are healthy is vital; a balanced diet, regular exercise, and avoiding tobacco or alcohol can make a difference in fertility.
As for the signs of early pregnancy, they can include missed periods, tender breasts, nausea, fatigue, and frequent urination. However, these symptoms can vary greatly from person to person. A pregnancy test can offer confirmation if you’re suspecting pregnancy. Continuing to have sex after conception is generally safe unless there’s a medical condition advising against it. However, if you suspect or have confirmed pregnancy, maintaining regular prenatal care is essential. Consulting a healthcare provider with any questions or concerns can provide tailored advice and peace of mind throughout the process. They can also verify whether any underlying issues are affecting fertility and discuss possible avenues such as fertility treatments if necessary. Tracking your fertility and adopting healthy lifestyle changes is a great starting point and can support your efforts to conceive.
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