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"Penis Size Concern and Early Discharge Issue" - #13594

Sam

"My age is 28, height 5.9, and weight 97 kg. I have a concern about whether my penis size is normal for my body type, both in relaxed and erect condition. During intercourse, I get an erection but usually ejaculate within 1-2 minutes after penetration. This makes me worried about premature ejaculation and sexual satisfaction. Kindly check my issue and guide about penis size norms, performance, and effective solutions for controlling early discharge.

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
3 days ago
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Hello dear See early ejaculation is not a sign of weak penis . But for proper improvement in prevention of erectile dysfunction you can go for following precautions and medication Do kegel exercises for atleast half an hour daily Take zincovit multivitamin therapy onca a day for 1 month Take shilajit onca a day for 1 month Avoid junk food Avoid smoking/ alcohol consumption Have adequate fruit and vegetables Lastly do meditation for mental health issues In case of no improvement in 1 month consult gynaecologist or sexologist in person for better clarity Regards

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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
3 days ago
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This requires in person consultation where one can discuss the problem. Get the personal consultation.

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Dr. Prasannajeet Singh Shekhawat
I am a 2023 batch passout and working as a general physician right now, based in Hanumangarh, Rajasthan. Still kinda new in the bigger picture maybe, but honestly—every single day in this line teaches you more than textbooks ever could. I’ve had the chance to work under some pretty respected doctors during and after my graduation, not just for the clinical part but also to see how they handle people, real people, in pain, in panic, and sometimes just confused about their own health. General medicine covers a lot, right? Like from the smallest complaints to those random, vague symptoms that no one really understands at first—those are kinda my zone now. I don’t really rush to label things, I try to spend time actually listening. Feels weird to say it but ya, I do take that part seriously. Some patients just need someone to hear the whole story instead of jumping to prescription pads after 30 seconds. Right now, my practice includes everything from managing common infections, blood pressure issues, sugar problems to more layered cases where symptoms overlap and you gotta just... piece things together. It's not glamorous all the time, but it's real. I’ve handled a bunch of seasonal disease waves too, like dengue surges and viral fevers that hit rural belts hard—Hanumangarh doesn’t get much spotlight but there’s plenty happening out here. Also, I do rely on basics—thorough history, solid clinical exam and yeah when needed, investigations. But not over-prescribing things just cz they’re there. One thing I picked up from the senior consultants I worked with—they used to say “don’t chase labs, chase the patient’s story”... stuck with me till now. Anyway, still learning every single day tbh. But I like that. Keeps me grounded and kind of obsessed with trying to get better.
3 days ago
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Hello Sam Thanks for sharing those details — it’s very common for men to have the same concerns, and the good news is that both your worries (penis size and early ejaculation) are treatable and often improve with the right approach…

1. Understanding Penis Size Norm - Penis size does not correlate with body height, weight, or overall size. So even if someone is heavier or taller, it doesn’t imply their penis should be proportionally larger or smaller. Most men who worry about being “small” are actually within the normal range.

Also, in sexual satisfaction-technique, emotional connection, and duration matter far more than size.

2. About Premature Ejaculation (PE)

From your description — ejaculating within 1–2 minutes after penetration — it does fit the typical definition of PE, especially if it happens consistently and causes distress. This is a very common issue (affecting 20–30% of men at some point).

Common causes include: Psychological: performance anxiety, stress, guilt, relationship tension Physical: hypersensitive glans, inflammation, thyroid imbalance, prostatitis Lifestyle: smoking, alcohol, obesity, low fitness, poor sleep

3. Effective Solutions and Control Strategies

A. Behavioral Techniques

1. Start–Stop Method: During stimulation, stop just before climax, wait 30 seconds, then start again. Repeat 3–4 times before finally allowing ejaculation.

2. Squeeze Technique: When you feel close, gently squeeze just below the glans to reduce arousal, then continue after a pause.

3. Pelvic Floor (Kegel) Exercises: Strengthening the muscles that control urination helps you hold back ejaculation.

Tighten the muscles as if you’re stopping urine midstream.
Hold for 5 seconds, relax for 5 seconds.
Repeat 10–15 times, 2–3 times a day.

4. Condoms: They reduce sensitivity and can increase duration. Counseling or sex therapy is very effective if anxiety or pressure is the trigger.

C. Lifestyle & General Health

* Aim for a healthy weight(your BMI ≈ 31.6, which is in the obese range). → Even a 5–10% reduction can improve testosterone, stamina, and confidence. * Regular exercise improves circulation, hormone balance, and endurance. * Cut smoking/alcohol, and get 7–8 hours of sleep. * Manage stress through meditation, yoga, or relaxation techniques.

4. When to See a Doctor

See a urologist or sexual health specialist if:

* Ejaculation happens before or within 1 minute of penetration consistently. * There’s loss of erection too quickly or no control at all. * You have other symptoms (pain, burning, hormonal changes, etc .

Thank you

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Penis size varies widely among individuals, and there isn’t a specific “normal” size tied to body type. Generally, the average erect penis size is around 5.1 to 5.5 inches, though it can range wider due to many factors. Regarding your concern about premature ejaculation (PE), this condition is common and usually refers to ejaculating sooner than desired either before or shortly after penetration, in your case, 1-2 minutes. Several approaches can help manage this issue. First, behavioral techniques can be effective – such as the “stop-start” method or squeezing technique. These involve learning to recognize the sensation of imminent ejaculation, then pausing or squeezing the penis to reduce arousal and prolong intercourse. Kegel exercises, which strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, may also help control ejaculation timing. In some cases, topical anesthetics can be applied to reduce sensation temporarily, or medications like selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) may be prescribed off-label to delay ejaculation. It’s advisable to consult with a healthcare professional to explore these options and determine what works best for you, considering factors such as lifestyle, preferences, and any potential side effects. Remember, open communication with your partner about concerns can also positively impact sexual satisfaction and experience. If you’re also concerned about overall sexual performance, maintaining a healthy lifestyle with regular exercise, balanced diet, and managing stress can support sexual function. If performance anxiety is a factor, techniques like mindfulness or cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) might be beneficial. Always ensure that any treatment plan or change involves consultation with a healthcare provider to prioritize your safety and health outcomes.

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