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I am underage. What should I say to the gynecologist? Please give me advice. I had unprotected sex without realizing it."
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Question #18309
49 days ago
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I am underage. What should I say to the gynecologist? Please give me advice. I had unprotected sex without realizing it." - #18309

Dilfuza

How can I find out now? It's been 3 days since the intercourse. Please help me prevent pregnancy."He told me that nothing entered me, but I'm scared. I'm not sure whether it went in or not."I have a little pain, not much. What should I do to prevent it?"

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Dr. Prasannajeet Singh Shekhawat
I am a 2023 batch passout and working as a general physician right now, based in Hanumangarh, Rajasthan. Still kinda new in the bigger picture maybe, but honestly—every single day in this line teaches you more than textbooks ever could. I’ve had the chance to work under some pretty respected doctors during and after my graduation, not just for the clinical part but also to see how they handle people, real people, in pain, in panic, and sometimes just confused about their own health. General medicine covers a lot, right? Like from the smallest complaints to those random, vague symptoms that no one really understands at first—those are kinda my zone now. I don’t really rush to label things, I try to spend time actually listening. Feels weird to say it but ya, I do take that part seriously. Some patients just need someone to hear the whole story instead of jumping to prescription pads after 30 seconds. Right now, my practice includes everything from managing common infections, blood pressure issues, sugar problems to more layered cases where symptoms overlap and you gotta just... piece things together. It's not glamorous all the time, but it's real. I’ve handled a bunch of seasonal disease waves too, like dengue surges and viral fevers that hit rural belts hard—Hanumangarh doesn’t get much spotlight but there’s plenty happening out here. Also, I do rely on basics—thorough history, solid clinical exam and yeah when needed, investigations. But not over-prescribing things just cz they’re there. One thing I picked up from the senior consultants I worked with—they used to say “don’t chase labs, chase the patient’s story”... stuck with me till now. Anyway, still learning every single day tbh. But I like that. Keeps me grounded and kind of obsessed with trying to get better.
49 days ago
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Hello Dilfuza I understand your concern about the possibility of pregnancy after recent intercourse. Since it’s been three days, here are some steps you can take: 1. Emergency Contraceptive Pill (ECP): If you’re worried about the risk of pregnancy, you can take an emergency contraceptive pill (like Unwanted 72) within 72 hours after unprotected intercourse. It’s most effective when taken as soon as possible. 2. Monitor Symptoms: If you experience any unusual symptoms, such as severe pain, heavy bleeding, or any signs of pregnancy (like missed periods), consult a gynecologist. 3. Use Protection in the Future:To prevent future worries, consider using condoms or discussing a regular birth control method with your healthcare provider. 4. Take a Pregnancy Test: If your period is late or you have any pregnancy symptoms in the coming weeks, take a pregnancy test for confirmation.

Investigations - 1) Urine pregnancy test at home 2) beta hcg blood if period misses or not on time

Thank you

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Dr. Arsha K Isac
I am a general dentist with 3+ years of working in real-world setups, and lemme say—every single patient teaches me something diff. It’s not just teeth honestly, it’s people… and how they feel walking into the chair. I try really hard to not make it just a “procedure thing.” I explain stuff in plain words—no confusing dental jargon, just straight talk—coz I feel like when ppl *get* what's going on, they feel safer n that makes all the difference. Worked with all ages—like, little kids who need that gentle nudge about brushing, to older folks who come in with long histories and sometimes just need someone to really sit n listen. It’s weirdly rewarding to see someone walk out lighter, not just 'coz their toothache's gone but coz they felt seen during the whole thing. A lot of ppl come in scared or just unsure, and I honestly take that seriously. I keep the vibe calm. Try to read their mood, don’t rush. I always tell myself—every smile’s got a story, even the broken ones. My thing is: comfort first, then precision. I want the outcome to last, not just look good for a week. Not tryna claim perfection or magic solutions—just consistent, clear, hands-on care where patients feel heard. I think dentistry should *fit* the person, not push them into a box. That's kinda been my philosophy from day one. And yeah, maybe sometimes I overexplain or spend a bit too long checking alignment again but hey, if it means someone eats pain-free or finally smiles wide in pics again? Worth it. Every time.
49 days ago
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Hello,

Dear, Pregnancy can happen only if semen enters the vagina.

If you are anxious, Take Levonorgestrel 1.5 mg - SINGLE DOSE

Take ONE tablet as soon as possible

Thank you

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If it’s been 3 days since the intercourse and you’re concerned about preventing pregnancy, your best option is to consider taking emergency contraception, often referred to as the “morning-after pill.” This can usually be taken up to 72 hours after unprotected sex, but ideally, it’s taken as soon as possible to maximize effectiveness. Some types of emergency contraception are effective up to 5 days after intercourse, but checking the specific type you have access to is important. To obtain it, you can visit a pharmacy or a clinic. While most emergency contraceptive pills are available over-the-counter in many countries, some may require a prescription. It’s advisable to check what’s available in your area.

Pain following intercourse might not necessarily indicate anything serious, but if it’s unusual for you or gets worse, and especially if it’s accompanied by other symptoms like unusual discharge or fever, you should seek medical attention. A medical professional can offer advice and conduct any necessary tests to ensure there are no infections or other issues. Mentioning this aspect to a gynecologist or healthcare provider will help them give you the most appropriate care.

It’s also worth noting that pain and fear from this situation can cause stress, which might affect your menstrual cycle, so staying calm and informed is beneficial. In any case, when you meet with a healthcare provider, just be honest about what happened. They’re trained to help you without judgment and can offer the necessary tests or treatments. When discussing with the healthcare provider, you might want to clarify questions about what constitutes penetrative sex, as this could help in understanding your risk profile. It’s a good practice to speak openly and clear up any confusion.

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
49 days ago
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Hello dear See pregnancy is possible only on physical contact of vagina with penis followed by ejaculation I suggest you to please get following tests done for confirmation Serum ferritin Serum prolactin Serum estrogen Pregnancy strip blood HCG test Urine analysis Serum TSH Please share the result with gynaecologist in person for better clarity Please donot take any medication without consulting the concerned physician Regards

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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
49 days ago
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For now better do a urine pregnancy test at home.

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Dr. Nikhil Chauhan
I am currently working as a urologist and kidney transplant surgeon at Graphic Era Medical College & Hospital, Dehradun. It's a role that keeps me on my toes, honestly. I handle a pretty wide range of urology cases—stones, prostate issues, urinary tract obstructions, infections, you name it. Some are straightforward, others way more complex than you expect at first glance. Every patient walks in with a different story and that’s what keeps the work real for me. Kidney transplant surgery, though, that’s a whole different zone. You’re not just working on anatomy—you’re dealing with timelines, matching, medications, family dynamics, emotional pressure... and yeah, very precise coordination. I’m part of a team that manages the entire transplant process—from evaluation to surgery to post-op care. Not gonna lie, it’s intense. But seeing someone who’s been on dialysis for years finally get a new shot at life—there’s nothing really like that feeling. In the OR, I’m detail-focused. Outside of it, I try to stay accessible—patients don’t always need answers right away, sometimes they just need to feel heard. I believe in walking them through what’s going on rather than just giving reports and instructions. Especially in transplant cases, trust matters. And clear, honest conversation helps build that. Urology itself is such a misunderstood field sometimes. People ignore symptoms for years because it feels “awkward” or they think it’s not serious until it becomes unmanageable. I’ve had patients who came in late just because they were embarassed to talk about urine flow or testicular pain. That’s why I also try to make the space judgment-free—like whatever it is, we’ll figure it out. At the end of the day, whether I’m scrubbing in for surgery or doing OPD rounds, I just want to make sure what I do *actually* helps. That the effort’s not wasted. And yeah, some days are frustrating—some procedures don’t go clean, some recoveries take longer than they should—but I keep showing up, cause the work’s worth doing. Always is.
48 days ago
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Hello Dilfuza,

You did the right thing by reaching out; you are not alone and this can be managed safely.

Firstly, avoid sexual intercourse in this age due to medicolegal purpose and that too unprotected one.

Pregnency is possible only if there is penetrative sex followed by ejaculation. If peneteration didn’t happen that time, then pregnancy is unlikely.

Emergency contraception pills can still work up to 5 days after sex, but are most effective as early as possible, so take one today only.

A urine pregnancy test is usually reliable about 2 weeks after the incident or after a missed period; the doctor may ask you to repeat it later even if you take emergency pills.

If you feel unsafe, pressured, or forced into any sexual activity, tell the doctor this clearly so they can protect you and guide you legally and medically.

Dr Nikhil Chauhan Urologist

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