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45 days ago
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Problem related to penetration while sex - #11235

Riya

Hi my friendis little underweight, she easily masturbate from her 4 fingers also she use cucumber less than half by getting little pain..but the pain is only during insertion not before and after but while intimate with partner when he try toinsert he feels like a wall as may be her muscles get tignten up during nervousness as she has a fear ki if they don't get intimate this time her partner will leave him. And eventually they unable to get intimate.p,ease provide the solution I don't think there is any medical issue as she easily insert fi ger and cucumber. P,ease provide a solution. Is she normal?

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
44 days ago
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Hello dear I think it is just a simple anxiety There is no sexual or internal health issues I suggest you to please consult psychiatrist in person for better clarification Regards

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Based on the description, it seems that your friend’s difficulty with penetration during intercourse may be related to a combination of psychological factors and muscle tension rather than a strict medical issue. It’s not uncommon for anxiety or nervousness to cause involuntary tightening of the pelvic floor muscles—affecting penetration and sometimes translating into a sensation of ‘hitting a wall.’ This is often associated with vaginismus, a condition where fear or anxiety lead to involuntary muscle contractions. Psychological factors, such as fear of rejection, can exacerbate these physical symptoms. It’s important to approach this problem holistically. Encouraging open communication between your friend and her partner can be beneficial; understanding feelings without the pressure to perform can help reduce anxiety. The use of relaxation techniques before intimacy, like deep breathing exercises or progressive muscle relaxation, may aid in reducing this involuntary tension. Importantly, some individuals find success with pelvic floor physical therapy, which focuses on exercises to control those muscle responses. If the situation persists, it could be helpful for your friend to consult with a healthcare professional, such as a gynecologist or a pelvic floor specialist, who can provide further evaluation and discussion of potential treatments, which might include desensitization exercises or therapy focusing on underlying anxiety and fears. If the concern is rooted in anxiety or emotional issues, counseling or therapy may also be beneficial. These methods must be considered based on her individual circumstances and how they integrate into her lifestyle.

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