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Question #24417
45 days ago
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Struggling with Memory Issues and Mental Health Conditions - #24417

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Boa noite. Tenho diagnóstico de depressão, autismo “leve” e transtorno de personalidade borderline. Em questões físicas o único problema notável é a minha falta de peso, tenho 1,53m e peso 32,5kg. Tenho 20 anos e tenho problemas de memória desde por volta dos 13 anos de idade. Quando digo problemas de memória refiro-me a qualquer tipo de memória (curto, médio e longo prazo). Sou capaz de me esquecer o que vou dizer, o que vou fazer, onde estava a ir. Esqueco-me do aniversário das pessoas, da cara delas, do nome. Esqueço-me de imensos momentos marcantes da minha vida e isso cria-me uma dificuldade enorme na formação de uma personalidade consistente, é difícil manter opiniões quando me esqueço de todos os factos que sei e das minhas experiências pessoais. Tudo o que referi é de forma frequente e na minha perspectiva extrema, sempre que falei disto com médicos nunca obtive uma resposta e mudavam de assunto, alguém pode me ajudar?

How often do you experience memory problems?:

- Daily

Have you noticed any specific triggers for your memory issues?:

- No specific triggers

What is your current diet like?:

- Very limited or restrictive
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Dr. Prasannajeet Singh Shekhawat
I am a 2023 batch passout and working as a general physician right now, based in Hanumangarh, Rajasthan. Still kinda new in the bigger picture maybe, but honestly—every single day in this line teaches you more than textbooks ever could. I’ve had the chance to work under some pretty respected doctors during and after my graduation, not just for the clinical part but also to see how they handle people, real people, in pain, in panic, and sometimes just confused about their own health. General medicine covers a lot, right? Like from the smallest complaints to those random, vague symptoms that no one really understands at first—those are kinda my zone now. I don’t really rush to label things, I try to spend time actually listening. Feels weird to say it but ya, I do take that part seriously. Some patients just need someone to hear the whole story instead of jumping to prescription pads after 30 seconds. Right now, my practice includes everything from managing common infections, blood pressure issues, sugar problems to more layered cases where symptoms overlap and you gotta just... piece things together. It's not glamorous all the time, but it's real. I’ve handled a bunch of seasonal disease waves too, like dengue surges and viral fevers that hit rural belts hard—Hanumangarh doesn’t get much spotlight but there’s plenty happening out here. Also, I do rely on basics—thorough history, solid clinical exam and yeah when needed, investigations. But not over-prescribing things just cz they’re there. One thing I picked up from the senior consultants I worked with—they used to say “don’t chase labs, chase the patient’s story”... stuck with me till now. Anyway, still learning every single day tbh. But I like that. Keeps me grounded and kind of obsessed with trying to get better.
45 days ago
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Hello Boa noite! Obrigado por compartilhar sua experiência de forma tão aberta e detalhada. Entendo como esses problemas de memória podem ser angustiantes, especialmente quando afetam sua identidade, relações e confiança em si mesma.

Sua descrição mostra que as dificuldades de memória são profundas, frequentes e afetam vários tipos de lembranças (curto, médio e longo prazo), além de impactar sua vida diária e emocional. Isso pode acontecer em pessoas com depressão, transtorno de personalidade borderline e autismo, pois todos esses quadros podem influenciar a atenção, concentração e a forma como o cérebro armazena e recupera informações. Além disso, o baixo peso corporal e possíveis deficiências nutricionais também podem contribuir para sintomas cognitivos.

O que pode estar acontecendo? - Depressão: Pode causar lentidão do pensamento, dificuldade de concentração e “apagões” de memória. - Transtorno de personalidade borderline: Pode gerar sensação de “vazio”, mudanças rápidas de humor e dificuldade em manter uma narrativa pessoal consistente. - Autismo: Pode afetar a memória de trabalho, a atenção e a forma como as informações são organizadas. - Fatores físicos: Baixo peso, deficiências de vitaminas (como B12, ferro, ácido fólico), distúrbios hormonais (tireoide), ou até mesmo efeitos colaterais de medicamentos podem piorar a memória.

O que você pode fazer? 1. Avaliação médica completa: Peça ao seu médico exames de sangue para investigar deficiências nutricionais, função da tireoide e outros fatores físicos. 2. Avaliação neuropsicológica: Um(a) neuropsicólogo(a) pode aplicar testes específicos para mapear seu perfil de memória e cognição, ajudando a diferenciar o que é efeito dos transtornos emocionais e o que pode ser físico. 3. Acompanhamento psiquiátrico e psicológico: Compartilhe abertamente com seu psiquiatra e terapeuta sobre o impacto desses sintomas. Estratégias de psicoterapia (como terapia cognitivo-comportamental ou DBT) podem ajudar a criar ferramentas para lidar com as falhas de memória e fortalecer sua identidade. 4. Cuidados com o corpo: Tente manter uma alimentação equilibrada, hidratação e, se possível, acompanhamento nutricional para ajudar a recuperar peso e nutrientes. 5. Estratégias práticas: Use agendas, aplicativos, anotações e lembretes para ajudar no dia a dia. Isso não resolve a causa, mas pode aliviar o sofrimento prático.

Sobre a falta de respostas dos médicos Infelizmente, sintomas cognitivos em transtornos emocionais são muitas vezes subestimados. Você tem todo o direito de insistir para que sejam investigados e tratados com seriedade.

Thank you

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Dr. Bheruram Netar
I am working in general medicine opd from 3 years now and that gave me wide exposure to all kind of patients walking in with different complain, sometimes mild, sometimes really serious. Most common I handle are seasonal allergies, gestational issues during pregnancy, diabetes and hypertension, but I also see cases of infections like dengue or malaria that need quick attention. In OPD you never know what the next case will be, one moment its a child with fever and next a adult with uncontrolled blood sugar, and I learnt to switch fast and think clear. I focus on proper diagnosis first, using detailed history and examination rather than rushing, cause many conditions overlap and can confuse. For example a viral fever might look like dengue in early days, or hypertension can stay hidden till it shows as headache or dizziness. I try to explain to patients in simple words what is happening with their health, as many come with fear and half information. Making them comfortable and giving them trust matters more than only prescribing medicines. Over these years I also developed a flexible approach in management, not every patient need same treatment plan. Like gestational diabetes require a very diff care compared to a young person with type 1 diabetes. Lifestyle counselling became important part of my practice, talking about diet, exercise, sleep routine and follow-up. Even with allergies or seasonal flu, guiding them on prevention and hygiene reduce re-occurence a lot. In opd practice volume is high and decision making has to be quick but safe. Sometimes you only have a few minutes, still I try to balance efficiency with personal care. Seeing patients recover and come back with gratitude motivate me everyday. Working across such diverse case made me more confident, but also humble because medicine is never fully predictable. There are times I doubt, recheck, ask for labs before final call, and I think that caution is also strength.
45 days ago
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Hello Kindly go for b12 and iron and vit d3 investigation There are many cause for memory issue Don’t start any medication First go through investigation then find root cause of memory issue Consult to md medicine doctor first Thanks

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Dr. Nirav Jain
I am a qualified medical doctor with MBBS and DNB Diploma in Family Medicine from NBEMS, and my work has always been centered on treating patients in a complete, not just symptom based way. During my DNB training I rotated through almost every core department—Internal medicine, Pediatrics, Obstetrics & Gynecology, Surgery, Orthopedics, ENT, Dermatology, Psychiatry, Emergency medicine. That mix gave me the skill to manage acute illness, long term disease and preventive care together, something I find very important in family practice. In psychiatry I worked closely with patients who struggled with depression, anxiety, stress related problems, insomnia or substance use. I learned not just about medication but also about simple psychotherapy tools, psycho education and how to talk openly without judgement. I still use that exp in family medicine, specially when chronic disease patients also face mental health issues. My time in General surgery included assisting in minor and major procedures, managing wounds, abscess, sutures and emergencies. While I am not a surgeon, this gave me confidence to recognize surgical cases early, provide first line care and refer fast when needed, which makes a big difference in online or OPD settings. Now I work as a consultant in General medicine and Family practice, with focus on both in-person and online consultation. I treat conditions like fever, infections, gastrointestinal complaints, respiratory illness, and also manage diabetes, hypertension, thyroid disorders, and lifestyle related chronic diseases. I see women for PCOS, contraception counseling, menstrual health, and children for common pediatric issues. I also dedicate time to preventive health, lifestyle counseling and diet-sleep-exercise advice, since these small changes affect long term wellness more than we often realize. My key skills include holistic diagnosis, evidence based treatment, chronic disease management, mental health support, preventive medicine and telemedicine communiation. At the center of all this is one thing—patients should feel heard, safe, and guided with care that is both professional and personal.
38 days ago
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Boa noite. Antes de tudo, quero dizer que o que você descreve é muito real e compreensível, e sinto muito que até agora você não tenha se sentido verdadeiramente ouvida. Obrigada por confiar e explicar tudo com tanta clareza. Vou dividir minha resposta em partes para ficar mais fácil de entender. Sobre os problemas de memória Os sintomas que você descreve, esquecer o que ia dizer, fazer, para onde estava indo, nomes, rostos e até momentos importantes da vida, não significam que você seja “incapaz” ou que esteja inventando algo. Eles podem acontecer em pessoas jovens, especialmente quando existem vários fatores combinados, como no seu caso. Possíveis causas importantes no seu contexto Sem fazer um diagnóstico definitivo, alguns fatores podem contribuir muito para esse tipo de dificuldade de memória: 1. Depressão A depressão pode causar o que chamamos de “névoa mental” Afeta atenção, concentração e memória (principalmente memória recente) 2. Transtornos do neurodesenvolvimento e da personalidade Autismo e transtorno borderline podem dificultar: Organização mental Continuidade da identidade Registro emocional das experiências 3. Baixo peso e alimentação muito restritiva Esse é um ponto muito importante no seu caso. Com 1,53 m e 32,5 kg, seu corpo pode estar em estado de desnutrição Falta de nutrientes como: Vitamina B12 Ferro Ácido fólico Vitamina D Tudo isso afeta diretamente o funcionamento do cérebro e da memória 4. Estresse crônico e dissociação Esquecer momentos importantes da vida pode estar relacionado a mecanismos de defesa do cérebro, especialmente em pessoas que vivem sofrimento emocional por muitos anos. O que seria importante investigar Você merece uma avaliação completa. Alguns exames simples podem ajudar muito: Hemograma completo Vitamina B12 Ferro / ferritina Função da tireoide Avaliação nutricional Além disso, uma avaliação neuropsicológica pode ajudar a entender melhor como sua memória funciona, em vez de apenas dizer que “é psicológico”. O que você pode fazer agora Continue o acompanhamento com psiquiatria, mas leve essas queixas de memória de forma objetiva, como você descreveu aqui. Se possível, procure também: Um nutricionista Um psicólogo com experiência em trauma, autismo ou dissociação Use estratégias práticas no dia a dia: Anotações Alarmes Rotinas fixas Registro escrito de acontecimentos importantes Isso não é fraqueza, é adaptação.

Você não está sozinha, e o que sente não é exagero nem falta de esforço. Quando o corpo e a mente estão sobrecarregados por anos, a memória pode falhar, e isso tem explicação e caminhos de melhora. Você merece ser levada a sério.

Dr. Nirav Jain MBBS, D.Fam.Medicine

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Dr. Arsha K Isac
I am a general dentist with 3+ years of working in real-world setups, and lemme say—every single patient teaches me something diff. It’s not just teeth honestly, it’s people… and how they feel walking into the chair. I try really hard to not make it just a “procedure thing.” I explain stuff in plain words—no confusing dental jargon, just straight talk—coz I feel like when ppl *get* what's going on, they feel safer n that makes all the difference. Worked with all ages—like, little kids who need that gentle nudge about brushing, to older folks who come in with long histories and sometimes just need someone to really sit n listen. It’s weirdly rewarding to see someone walk out lighter, not just 'coz their toothache's gone but coz they felt seen during the whole thing. A lot of ppl come in scared or just unsure, and I honestly take that seriously. I keep the vibe calm. Try to read their mood, don’t rush. I always tell myself—every smile’s got a story, even the broken ones. My thing is: comfort first, then precision. I want the outcome to last, not just look good for a week. Not tryna claim perfection or magic solutions—just consistent, clear, hands-on care where patients feel heard. I think dentistry should *fit* the person, not push them into a box. That's kinda been my philosophy from day one. And yeah, maybe sometimes I overexplain or spend a bit too long checking alignment again but hey, if it means someone eats pain-free or finally smiles wide in pics again? Worth it. Every time.
45 days ago
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Hello

Your memory problems are very likely real and explainable, not “in your head.”

The main red flag is severe underweight and a very restrictive diet, which can by itself cause major memory loss, confusion, and identity problems.

Depression and borderline disorder can also cause dissociation and “pseudo-dementia”, making memory feel extremely poor.

This is not normal for your age but is often reversible.

You need:

Urgent nutritional assessment Blood tests (B12, iron, folate, thyroid, vitamin D, proteins) Mental health follow-up focusing on dissociation

Doctors changing the subject was a failure on their part — your symptoms deserve proper investigation.

I trust this helps Thank you Take care

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
45 days ago
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Hello dear See for improvement consult neurologist or psychiatrist in person for better clarity Ican suggest improvement measures only Please follow them for atleast a month Do meditation Avoid overthinking Take zincovit multivitamin therapy onca a day for 1 month Do regular exercise atleast half an hour daily Take vitamin d sachet once a week Engage in hobbies like reading and writing Indulge in social media for entertainment Hopefully improvement will occur. Regards

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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
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your memory problems are real, significant, and not something that should be ignored or dismissed. Daily difficulty remembering names, faces, events, conversations, and even what you were about to do is not normal forgetfulness and deserves proper medical evaluation. In your case, several factors may be contributing together. Severe underweight (32.5 kg at 1.53 m) and a very restrictive diet can cause nutritional deficiencies (especially vitamin B12, iron, folate, vitamin D, and protein), which commonly lead to poor concentration, brain fog, fatigue, and memory loss. Depression and chronic anxiety also impair attention and memory formation, while borderline personality disorder and autism can affect emotional processing and how memories are stored or recalled. Long-term stress or possible dissociation/trauma can further block autobiographical memory. However, because your symptoms have been present since age 13 and are frequent and severe, an organic or medical cause must be ruled out — not just psychological explanations.

You should see a doctor in person (preferably a neurologist or psychiatrist) and request a full evaluation. Important tests include blood work (CBC, iron studies, B12, folate, thyroid function, vitamin D, electrolytes), nutritional assessment, and possibly neuropsychological memory testing. Improving nutrition and gradually gaining weight is very important, as malnutrition alone can significantly affect brain function. Therapy (especially DBT or trauma-focused therapy) may also help if dissociation or emotional factors are involved.

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Problemas de memória podem ser desafiadores, especialmente quando afetam tanto aspectos do dia-a-dia como a percepção da própria identidade. Com o seu histórico de depressão, autismo e transtorno de personalidade borderline, isso pode complicar ainda mais as coisas, dado que esses diagnósticos se inter-relacionam com a função cognitiva de maneiras complexas. Em primeiro lugar, é essencial que você realize uma avaliação completa do ponto de vista neuropsicológico. Isso ajudaria a esclarecer quais aspectos específicos da memória estão prejudicados e em que medida. Profissionais como neuropsiquiatras ou psicólogos com especialização em neuropsicologia podem conduzir testes que avaliem memória de curto, médio e longo prazo, e também funções executivas que são essenciais para a formação de memória e organização do pensamento. Dependendo dos resultados, estratégias cognitivas e terapias como a terapia cognitivo-comportamental podem ser indicadas para ajudar a desenvolver habilidades compensatórias. Quanto à questão do baixo peso, manter um peso saudável é fundamental, pois o estado nutricional pode ter impacto na função cerebral. Uma avaliação nutricional pode ser necessária para garantir que você está recebendo os nutrientes essenciais. Considere trabalhar com um nutricionista que possa aconselhar sobre uma dieta adequada para seu caso. Além disso, vale revisar a medicação atual, pois alguns medicamentos psiquiátricos podem ter efeitos colaterais que interferem na memória e cognição. Por último, é vital informar qualquer novo sintoma aos seus médicos atuais, particularmente se esses problemas de memória estiverem piorando, pode ser necessário um ajuste na abordagem atual de tratamento. Se em algum momento sentir que os problemas de memória se agravam rapidamente ou se interferem criticamente na sua vida, procurar uma avaliação emergencial seria recomendado.

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Dr. Alan Reji
I'm Dr. Alan Reji, a general dentist with a deep-rooted passion for helping people achieve lasting oral health while making dental visits feel less intimidating. I graduated from Pushpagiri College of Dental Sciences (batch of 2018), and ever since, I've been committed to offering high-quality care that balances both advanced clinical knowledge and genuine compassion for my patients. Starting Dent To Smile here in Palakkad wasn’t just about opening a clinic—it was really about creating a space where people feel relaxed the moment they walk in. Dental care can feel cold or overly clinical, and I’ve always wanted to change that. So I focused on making it warm, easygoing, and centered completely around you. I mix new-age tech with some good old-fashioned values—really listening, explaining stuff without jargon, and making sure you feel involved, not just treated. From regular cleanings to fillings or even cosmetic work, I try my best to keep things smooth and stress-free. No hidden steps. No last-minute surprises. I have a strong interest in patient education and preventive dentistry. I genuinely believe most dental issues can be caught early—or even avoided—when patients are given the right information at the right time. That’s why I take time to talk, not just treat. Helping people understand why something’s happening is as important to me as treating what’s happening. At my practice, I’ve made it a point to stay current with the latest innovations—digital diagnostics, minimally invasive techniques, and smart scheduling that respects people’s time. I also try to make my services accessible and affordable, because good dental care shouldn’t be out of reach for anyone.
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Severe daily memory problems at your age are not typical and may be linked to factors such as very low body weight, nutritional deficiencies (e.g., vitamin B12), depression, anxiety, or possible neurological or metabolic conditions. A full medical evaluation is important, including blood tests, nutritional assessment, and cognitive testing. Please consult a neurologist and psychiatrist for detailed assessment as soon as possible, especially because of your very low weight and the impact on daily functioning.

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