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Question #28166
38 days ago
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Seeking Help for My Mother's Pain After a Fall - #28166

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Hello doctor. I would like to ask about my mother’s condition. She had a fall in December. After the fall, she had pain for about 15 days. The pain improved slightly at first, but after some time it started to get worse again. Now she has almost constant pain with occasional sharp stabbing sensations. The pain is located in the cleft between the buttocks, slightly above the anus, more toward the right side. The pain gets worse when she sits, bends forward, walks a lot, or when she strains during bowel movements. It improves when she lies down, rests, or avoids physical activity. The pain is quite severe. She describes it as very strong and constant, and at times it reaches a **10 out of 10 in intensity**. For example, about two days ago she said the pain was extremely intense, around 10/10. She also feels that the area is **very inflamed**, even without touching it. Yesterday she bent forward and touched the painful area and felt that it was quite swollen. She said that was the moment when she noticed the most inflammation. She also mentioned that sometimes when she passes gas during a bowel movement, a small amount of mucus-like discharge comes out. Normally she is very active and walks a lot, but on one day when she stayed resting almost the whole day, she noticed a slight improvement in the pain. She has already been examined by a doctor who did not think the problem was directly related to the rectum. He prescribed vitamin injections for 10 days, prednisone, and amitriptyline. We would like to know what could be causing this type of pain after a fall, and whether it could be related to nerve inflammation, a soft tissue injury, or another condition in that area. Thank you very much for your help.

How long has your mother been experiencing this pain since the fall?:

- 1-3 months

Has she tried any treatments or medications for the pain?:

- Yes, over-the-counter pain relievers

Has she experienced any other symptoms alongside the pain?:

- No, just the pain
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Dr. Arsha K Isac
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37 days ago
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Hello

Severe tailbone (coccyx) or sacrococcygeal injury after a fall is a possible cause of this type of pain. Conditions such as Coccydynia, ligament strain, or inflammation of tissues around the coccyx can cause intense pain when sitting, bending, or straining, and relief when lying down.

Another possibility is a soft-tissue injury or inflammation near the gluteal cleft, and less commonly a Pilonidal cyst, which can cause swelling and occasional mucus-like discharge.

Since the pain is very severe (10/10) and persistent for months, it would be advisable for her to see a doctor again, preferably an orthopedic specialist or general surgeon. They may recommend a physical examination and imaging such as an X-ray or MRI of the coccyx/sacral area to rule out fracture, chronic inflammation, or a cyst.

If swelling, redness, fever, or discharge increases, she should seek medical evaluation promptly.

I hope this helps. Thank you. Take care.

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It sounds like your mother’s symptoms could be related to a few potential causes. Considering the location and type of pain, one possibility is coccydynia, which is pain in the tailbone area following a trauma such as a fall. The pain exacerbation with sitting and bending forward aligns with this diagnosis. Inflammation or bruising around the coccyx can cause intense pain, especially when pressure is applied, like during sitting. Another consideration could be a sacrococcygeal or pilonidal cyst, particularly given the swelling and inflammation she’s experiencing. This condition entails a fluid-filled cavity or abscess formation near the tailbone, often exacerbated by infection.

The sharp, stabbing nature of the pain and occasional discharge can also be indicative of a more precisely defined sacral nerve irritation or related soft tissue injury, possibly involving the gluteal muscles or ligaments around the area. Considering the symptoms of inflammation and discharge, it’s crucial to rule out any skin or soft tissue infection in the area, as well. Given the complexity and severity of her symptoms, I suggest that she follow up with her physician, possibly considering an orthopedic or pain specialist referral, particularly if these symptoms persist or intensify.

Diagnostic imaging, such as an X-ray or MRI, may be advised to provide further insight, especially to assess any structural damage or soft tissue concerns. Meanwhile, managing pain through prescribed medications like non-steroidal anti-inflamatory drugs (NSAIDs) for pain relief and reducing inflammation might be beneficial. Avoidments of prolonged sitting and using special cushions that distribute weight evenly can alleviate the pressure on the coccyx during recovery. If she’s on prednisone, following the doctor’s advice on tapering is important to avoid withdrawal effects. If infections like abscess are a concern, early intervention is advised to prevent complications. Further, warm baths or application of heat can help alleviate pain, but it’s vital to ensure open wounds or infections are not present that might worsen with moisture.

Lastly, since you’re considering the possibility of nerve involvement, some physical therapy or exercises, as advised by a healthcare professional, focusing on strengthening the core and relaxing the pelvic area, could support recovery and help reduce strain in the area. Her symptoms require careful assessment, so monitoring for any fever, increased discharge, or other new symptoms that could warrant more immediate medical evaluation is wise.

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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
34 days ago
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severe pain in the cleft between the buttocks, swelling, worsening with sitting/straining, and occasional mucus-like discharge—suggest that this is more likely a local soft tissue or skin-related condition rather than just a nerve issue from the fall. One important possibility is Pilonidal Sinus, which commonly occurs in that exact location and can become very painful, especially when sitting or bending. Another possibility is a Perianal Abscess, which can also cause intense pain and sometimes discharge, even if initially not obvious externally. While a fall may have triggered inflammation or irritation in the area, the persistent severe pain (up to 10/10), swelling, and discharge strongly suggest that there could now be an underlying infection or cyst formation rather than just a simple injury or nerve inflammation.

The medications she was given (like prednisone and amitriptyline) can help with inflammation and nerve-related pain, but they do not treat infections or abscesses, and steroids like prednisone can sometimes mask or worsen infections. Because her pain is severe and ongoing for more than 2 months, she should be re-evaluated urgently by a general surgeon. A proper physical examination—and if needed, ultrasound or MRI—can confirm whether there is a sinus, abscess, or other structural issue. If an abscess or pilonidal disease is present, treatment may require antibiotics or a minor surgical procedure (drainage) for relief.

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
38 days ago
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Hello dear See i think it is trauma induced injury. It seems very minor but could be detrimental in future. I suggest you to please get following tests done and share result with orthopedician for better clarity For safety and improvement please donot take any medication without consulting the concerned physician Hopefully you recover soon CBC Esr CRP X ray pelvis Pelvic USG Ct scan Mri if recommended by orthopedician Merely medication will not provide permanent relief Regards Regards

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I am a 2023 batch passout and working as a general physician right now, based in Hanumangarh, Rajasthan. Still kinda new in the bigger picture maybe, but honestly—every single day in this line teaches you more than textbooks ever could. I’ve had the chance to work under some pretty respected doctors during and after my graduation, not just for the clinical part but also to see how they handle people, real people, in pain, in panic, and sometimes just confused about their own health. General medicine covers a lot, right? Like from the smallest complaints to those random, vague symptoms that no one really understands at first—those are kinda my zone now. I don’t really rush to label things, I try to spend time actually listening. Feels weird to say it but ya, I do take that part seriously. Some patients just need someone to hear the whole story instead of jumping to prescription pads after 30 seconds. Right now, my practice includes everything from managing common infections, blood pressure issues, sugar problems to more layered cases where symptoms overlap and you gotta just... piece things together. It's not glamorous all the time, but it's real. I’ve handled a bunch of seasonal disease waves too, like dengue surges and viral fevers that hit rural belts hard—Hanumangarh doesn’t get much spotlight but there’s plenty happening out here. Also, I do rely on basics—thorough history, solid clinical exam and yeah when needed, investigations. But not over-prescribing things just cz they’re there. One thing I picked up from the senior consultants I worked with—they used to say “don’t chase labs, chase the patient’s story”... stuck with me till now. Anyway, still learning every single day tbh. But I like that. Keeps me grounded and kind of obsessed with trying to get better.
33 days ago
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Hello Thank you for describing her symptoms and the sequence of events so clearly. Based on what you’ve shared—pain and swelling in a specific area after a fall, increased inflammation when bending forward, and occasional mucus-like discharge during bowel movements—it’s reasonable to consider a few possibilities:

### Most Likely Causes

1. Soft Tissue Injury or Hematoma:
After a fall, bruising or swelling of the muscles, fat, or connective tissue near the rectal or perineal area is common. This can cause pain, swelling, and sometimes a feeling of fullness or inflammation, especially when moving or pressing on the area.

2. Nerve Irritation or Inflammation:
If the fall caused a stretch or compression of nerves in the lower back, buttock, or pelvic region, it can lead to persistent pain, sometimes radiating or worsening with movement. Amitriptyline is often prescribed for nerve-related pain.

3. Minor Anal or Perianal Injury:
Even if the doctor didn’t find a direct rectal problem, a small tear, fissure, or irritation near the anus can cause pain and sometimes mucus discharge, especially during bowel movements.

4. Less Likely but Possible:
- Localized infection or abscess (would usually cause redness, warmth, fever) - Exacerbation of a pre-existing condition (like hemorrhoids or a cyst)

### Why Rest Helps Resting reduces pressure and movement in the injured area, which can temporarily decrease pain and swelling.

### What to Watch For - Increasing redness, warmth, or fever (could mean infection) - Worsening pain or swelling - Difficulty passing stool or urine - Persistent or increasing mucus or blood in stool

### Next Steps - Continue prescribed treatment and rest as advised. - Apply cold packs (if swelling is recent) or warm compresses (if swelling is older than 48 hours) for comfort. - If symptoms worsen or new symptoms develop, a follow-up with the doctor is important—sometimes imaging (like an ultrasound or MRI) is needed to rule out deeper injuries.

This type of pain after a fall is most often due to soft tissue or nerve irritation, but monitoring for any changes is important.

Thank you

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Dr. Alan Reji
I'm Dr. Alan Reji, a general dentist with a deep-rooted passion for helping people achieve lasting oral health while making dental visits feel less intimidating. I graduated from Pushpagiri College of Dental Sciences (batch of 2018), and ever since, I've been committed to offering high-quality care that balances both advanced clinical knowledge and genuine compassion for my patients. Starting Dent To Smile here in Palakkad wasn’t just about opening a clinic—it was really about creating a space where people feel relaxed the moment they walk in. Dental care can feel cold or overly clinical, and I’ve always wanted to change that. So I focused on making it warm, easygoing, and centered completely around you. I mix new-age tech with some good old-fashioned values—really listening, explaining stuff without jargon, and making sure you feel involved, not just treated. From regular cleanings to fillings or even cosmetic work, I try my best to keep things smooth and stress-free. No hidden steps. No last-minute surprises. I have a strong interest in patient education and preventive dentistry. I genuinely believe most dental issues can be caught early—or even avoided—when patients are given the right information at the right time. That’s why I take time to talk, not just treat. Helping people understand why something’s happening is as important to me as treating what’s happening. At my practice, I’ve made it a point to stay current with the latest innovations—digital diagnostics, minimally invasive techniques, and smart scheduling that respects people’s time. I also try to make my services accessible and affordable, because good dental care shouldn’t be out of reach for anyone.
32 days ago
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Based on your description, the most likely causes include Coccydynia (tailbone injury/pain) or possibly a Pilonidal Abscess, especially since there is localized swelling, severe pain on sitting, and occasional discharge.

Pain after a fall that worsens with sitting and improves on lying down strongly suggests tailbone or soft tissue injury, but the presence of swelling and mucus-like discharge raises concern for an underlying infection or abscess that may need drainage.

I strongly recommend evaluation by a General Surgeon or orthopedician for physical examination and possibly imaging, as untreated infection or chronic inflammation can worsen and require targeted treatment.

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Dr. Nirav Jain
I am a qualified medical doctor with MBBS and DNB Diploma in Family Medicine from NBEMS, and my work has always been centered on treating patients in a complete, not just symptom based way. During my DNB training I rotated through almost every core department—Internal medicine, Pediatrics, Obstetrics & Gynecology, Surgery, Orthopedics, ENT, Dermatology, Psychiatry, Emergency medicine. That mix gave me the skill to manage acute illness, long term disease and preventive care together, something I find very important in family practice. In psychiatry I worked closely with patients who struggled with depression, anxiety, stress related problems, insomnia or substance use. I learned not just about medication but also about simple psychotherapy tools, psycho education and how to talk openly without judgement. I still use that exp in family medicine, specially when chronic disease patients also face mental health issues. My time in General surgery included assisting in minor and major procedures, managing wounds, abscess, sutures and emergencies. While I am not a surgeon, this gave me confidence to recognize surgical cases early, provide first line care and refer fast when needed, which makes a big difference in online or OPD settings. Now I work as a consultant in General medicine and Family practice, with focus on both in-person and online consultation. I treat conditions like fever, infections, gastrointestinal complaints, respiratory illness, and also manage diabetes, hypertension, thyroid disorders, and lifestyle related chronic diseases. I see women for PCOS, contraception counseling, menstrual health, and children for common pediatric issues. I also dedicate time to preventive health, lifestyle counseling and diet-sleep-exercise advice, since these small changes affect long term wellness more than we often realize. My key skills include holistic diagnosis, evidence based treatment, chronic disease management, mental health support, preventive medicine and telemedicine communiation. At the center of all this is one thing—patients should feel heard, safe, and guided with care that is both professional and personal.
31 days ago
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Hello, thank you for sharing your concern. Based on your explanation, issues might be due to Coccyx injury or fracture, Soft tissue injury or ligament strain in that region or Local inflammation or swelling after trauma.

Pain that worsens on sitting, bending forward, walking, and straining, and improves with lying down, is very typical of tailbone (coccyx) injury.

However, the presence of swelling and mucus-like discharge suggests that there could also be a local infection, abscess, or pilonidal sinus, especially since the pain is severe and persistent. Here is my advise-

1. Avoid prolonged sitting (use a soft cushion or donut pillow). Give adequate rest and avoid strain. Use warm sitz baths (10–15 minutes, 2–3 times daily). You may use Tab. Paracetamol 650mg for pain relief.

2. Please get her examined again (preferably by a surgeon): She may need: Physical examination of the area. Possibly an X-ray of coccyx. If swelling persists, then Ultrasound/MRI.

3. Seek urgent care if: Fever develops. Swelling increases or becomes very tender. Pus discharge appears. Pain becomes unbearable.

4. The medications given earlier may help in some types of pain, but given the severity, swelling, and duration, a local structural or infective cause must be ruled out properly.

Overall, this condition is treatable, but she needs a proper re-evaluation and possibly imaging to identify the exact cause.

Feel free to reach out again.

Regards, Dr. Nirav Jain MBBS, D.Fam.Medicine

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