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Pediatric Medicine
Question #27930
90 days ago
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cuddles and care - #27930

Shaurya

I am really worried about my daughter, she's been feeling really low lately. She's 10, and normally super energetic, but for the past month, she just sits on her bed staring at her phone. Her grades are dropping, and she doesn’t even want to hang out with her friends anymore. When I try to talk to her, she just says she's fine but I can tell something isn't right. I thought maybe some cuddles and care would help, you know? Like, we could have movie nights or bake cookies or something. I mean, we used to do that all the time but now she doesn’t even respond when I suggest it. I tried giving her cuddles and care, but she just brushes me off! It’s like she’s in her own world. I asked her if something's bothering her, but she kinda shuts down. I saw some articles that talked about how important cuddles and care are for mental health, but what if it’s not enough? Maybe I'm not doing it right? Should I just keep trying? Also, is there a point where I should take her to see someone? I don’t wanna push too hard and make it worse. I’m just feeling lost here, like am I supposed to do more cuddles and care or is there a different direction I should be looking into? Any advice from you all would be great.

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First, it’s good that you’re observant and proactive about your daughter’s well-being. Considering her age and the sudden change in behavior, it might be worth exploring the possibility of underlying factors that could be affecting her mood, such as school stress, friendships, or even an emerging mental health condition like depression or anxiety. While cuddles and care are definitely helpful and supportive, sometimes they’re not enough by themselves if there’s a deeper issue at play. If she’s withdrawing and not interested in activities she used to enjoy, and since this behavior change has persisted for a month, it might be wise to have a conversation with her pediatrician. They can help assess whether a referral to a child psychologist or therapist might be beneficial. Early intervention can be crucial for mental health, and professionals trained in child and adolescent health can often identify issues or suggest therapies that may not be obvious. Make sure to approach this without pressure; gently let her know that getting some additional support is just like seeing a doctor for any other health concern. Apart from professional help, keep trying to connect with her without being too intrusive—sometimes just being available and showing you’re interested without pushing can gradually encourage openness. Keep an eye out for any signs that the situation is worsening, such as changes in sleep, appetite, or mentioning feelings of hopelessness, as these would indeed necessitate more immediate intervention. In summary, while cuddles and care are vital, exploring professional guidance seems like a necessary step given the situation.

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