sex during 9th month of pregnancy - #28060
I am really confused about sex during 9th month of pregnancy. My wife is about to pop, like literally any day now, and we were talking about intimacy the other night. She feels super huge and uncomfortable, which I get, but then I also read some stuff about sex during 9th month of pregnancy being okay for most couples, as long as there’s no complications, right? I just wanna make sure we're not putting her or the baby at risk or anything. I mean, we're both really into each other still, and I feel like it's important to connect, but I don't wanna overstep or hurt her at all. I tried looking up if there are positions that are safer or anything for sex during 9th month of pregnancy but most advice seems kinda vague. And, like, what if she suddenly goes into labor?? That would be kinda awkward, lol. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? I really would appreciate hearing from you guys, like, do you think it’s ok to have sex during 9th month of pregnancy? Or should we just hold off till after the baby comes? Just wanting to make sure we're being safe about it all. Thanks!
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Yes, sex during the ninth month of pregnancy is generally considered safe for most couples, provided there are no specific complications or concerns that your wife’s healthcare provider has mentioned. It’s important to consider her comfort and any risks unique to her situation. Before deciding on intimacy, ensure she’s clear of any conditions like placenta previa, preterm labor risk, or unexplained vaginal bleeding, as these could require avoiding intercourse. Regarding comfort, open communication is key — she should listen to her body, and you should respect her cues, whether it’s a matter of finding a comfortable position or deciding to hold off. Many find side-lying or spooning positions more comfortable at this stage, as they reduce pressure on the abdomen. The presence of a supportive pillow can also aid comfort. If she feels tender or any pelvic pain, it’s best to pause and maybe consult her doctor for tailored guidance. As for labor, it’s a physiological possibility since sex can stimulate contractions due to the release of prostaglandins in semen or orgasm potentially triggering uterine contractions. Though this doesn’t usually cause labor, if any signs of labor occur, you should call her healthcare provider right away. Ultimately, trust her instincts, maintain open dialogue, and check with her healthcare provider for any specific directives relating to her pregnancy. Always prioritize safety and comfort over the desire for intimacy.
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