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Sexual Health & Wellness
Question #23315
164 days ago
244

how to do penile massage

Aditi

I am really confused about how to do penile massage. Like, I’ve heard it can improve circulation and maybe even help with some issues like erectile dysfunction, but I don’t know where to start! A few months ago, I was dealing with some performance anxiety and my doctor suggested looking into it. He mentioned it might help, but I feel so awkward trying to figure this out. I read a couple of articles but they were super vague and honestly a bit uncomfortable to read. Also, I tried watching some videos, but they feel kinda weird, you know? It’s not like we talk about this stuff openly! Do I need any special oils or techniques? And, like, is it supposed to be painful or just relaxing? I’m also worried about making sure I’m being safe. Is there a way to do this without hurting myself? Any tips on how to do penile massage? Should I be doing it daily or is a few times a week enough? I’m really looking for a straightforward, no-nonsense answer if possible! Thank you!

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Penile massage can potentially help with circulation and relaxation, which might indirectly support erectile function. While this isn’t a guaranteed solution for erectile dysfunction (ED), some people do find it beneficial as part of a broader approach to managing their symptoms. To begin, it’s important to approach this process without high expectations or pressure for immediate results. The focus should be on relaxation and improving blood flow rather than achieving a specific outcome. You don’t need any special oils, but you can use a natural, skin-friendly lubricant, like coconut oil or a water-based lubricant, if you prefer more comfort. The technique itself should be gentle; forceful or painful manipulation could cause harm or exacerbate any existing issues. Start by holding the base of your penis and using soft, circular motions to massage towards the tip. You can also gently stretch the skin by pulling slightly, just enough to feel the tension but not discomfort. The massage should not be painful—maintain a light touch, and focus on areas that feel tense. It’s wise to do this 2-3 times a week and adjust the frequency based on your comfort and any feedback from your body. Be sure to stop immediately if you feel sharp pain or notice any adverse symptoms, like redness or excessive swelling. If any issues arise, or if you’re unsure about the technique, consulting with a healthcare provider could provide reassurance and personalized advice. Always prioritize safety and comfort in whatever practices you incorporate. Lastly, combining this with other strategies like stress management or lifestyle changes, including regular exercise and a balanced diet, might also contribute positively towards managing erectile function, particularly when linked to performance anxiety.

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