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Sexual Health & Wellness
Question #28688
110 days ago
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Struggling with Uncontrolled Sexual Thoughts and Behavior

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I am 37 years old, married, and I am struggling with bad sexual thoughts, uncontrolled masturbation, and abnormal sexual behavior. I want to answer some questions to get help.

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Hello dear See it is probably anxiety issues only. Iam suggesting some precautions for improvement Do physical exercise atleast half an hour daily for 5 months Do meditation Take good balanced diet for good health Engage in social media Indulge in hobbies like reading and writing Avoid overthinking Avoid junk food and alcohol/ smoking Set your goals for every day

kindly consult gynaecologist for further clarification Hopefully you recover soon Regards

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Hi,

· Acknowledging the concern is the first step—you’re seeking help, which is important · Uncontrolled sexual thoughts and masturbation may be linked to anxiety, stress, or compulsive sexual behavior disorder · Next steps: · Consult a urologist or sexologist to rule out hormonal or physical causes · A psychiatrist or psychologist can help manage compulsions and thought patterns · Treatment options include counseling, behavioral therapy, and sometimes medications to reduce urges · You are not alone—this is a treatable condition with the right support

Take the first step toward professional guidance.

— Dr. Nikhil Chauhan Urologist

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Hello, thank you for sharing this. It takes courage to talk about it, and you are not alone. You might have compulsive sexual behavior or be related to stress, anxiety, or underlying psychological factors. Having sexual thoughts is normal, but when they become excessive, distressing, or hard to control, it may need attention. This is a treatable condition, and improvement is definitely possible.

Try to avoid triggers (explicit content, certain situations). Keep yourself engaged in activities (exercise, work, hobbies). Maintain a structured daily routine. Reduce alone idle time.

The most effective help is through counseling or therapy. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can help control thoughts and behaviors. So, kindly visit a psychologist/ psychiatrist/ family medicine specialist for it’s initiation. Even some medications are there to help you, but they should be prescribed be a certified psychiatrist only. So, kindly consult one.

Seek help- If this is affecting your married life, work, or mental peace. If you feel loss of control over behavior.

This condition is more common than people think. With proper guidance and treatment, you can regain control and feel better. You’ve already taken an important first step by asking for help, consider consulting a mental health professional for proper support and recovery.

Feel free to reach out again.

Regards, Dr. Nirav Jain MBBS, D.Fam.Medicine

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In person consultation would be better option.

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Hello

You’re not alone — many people struggle with intrusive sexual thoughts or feeling their sexual behavior is hard to control. This can happen due to stress, anxiety, habit patterns, or compulsive sexual behavior, and it is treatable.

What helps: • Identify triggers (stress, boredom, loneliness, pornography use). • Set limits and create structure in daily routine. • Reduce exposure to sexual content. • Consider speaking with a mental health professional if the behavior feels out of control or causes guilt or relationship problems.

If symptoms are persistent or severe, doctors may sometimes use therapy and, in certain cases, medications such as Fluoxetine to help reduce compulsive urges.

Thank you Take care

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Hey there! It’s great that you’re reaching out for help. It takes courage to talk about these things, and I’m here to support you. Feel free to ask your questions, and I’ll do my best to provide guidance and suggestions. What would you like to discuss?

Thank you

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It’s important to recognize that experiencing distress from intrusive sexual thoughts and engaging in behaviors like uncontrolled masturbation can significantly impact daily life and relationships, and it may be worth exploring potential underlying causes. These behaviors and thoughts might be linked to compulsive sexual behavior disorder, which shares characteristics with impulse control disorders or other mental health issues. Evaluating your mental and emotional health is a crucial step. A healthcare professional, particularly one who specializes in sexual health or mental health, can provide tailored help. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) has shown positive results for people dealing with similar challenges by helping to modify thought patterns and behaviors. Mindfulness and relaxation techniques might also aid in reducing these intrusive thoughts by fostering greater mental control. Additionally, it could be beneficial to examine potential stressors or emotional triggers in your life that may be exacerbating these issues. Reducing substance use, practicing healthy coping strategies for stress management, and ensuring adequate sleep and physical activity can all support mental wellness. If immediate intervention is required or if these issues are causing significant distress or impairment in daily functioning, seeking a psychiatrist or a psychologist is recommended. They can offer a thorough evaluation and create a comprehensive management plan. Medication is sometimes considered if there’s an indication of coexisting conditions like anxiety or depression. Remember to seek help immediately if there are any feelings of hopelessness or thoughts of self-harm, as these require urgent attention.

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