Sex - #29159
I am in this really confusing place right now about sex. I've never had any issues before, but suddenly after I turned 30, things have changed. Like, I used to have a pretty active sex life, and honestly, I loved it! But now it feels kinda different. I started noticing that I'm not as interested in sex as I used to be, and sometimes when I try to engage in sex, I don’t really feel that same excitement — if anything, I feel kinda anxious about it. I talked to my partner about it, and they said it might be stress-related since work has been super hectic, but I don’t know... I feel like there’s more to it. I saw my doctor for a check-up and mentioned these changes, but they just said stuff like "it’s normal," and that everyones has their phases. But is this really normal? Like, should I be worried that my desire for sex has gone down? And also, does age really play a role in how we think about sex or our drive? I’m nervous that something else could be going on, like hormonal changes or something more serious, ya know? Any thoughts or experiences with this? It really kind of freaks me out to think that my relationship could be affected by this. Would love to know if anyone else has had similiar experiences with sex at this age, or if I need to think about getting a second opinion!
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