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Question #30515
4 hours ago
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How to manage anger issues that are affecting my relationships? - #30515

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I have an anger problem always get angry immediately and seriously looking face and this is destroying my relationship

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Dr. Arsha K Isac
I am a general dentist with 3+ years of working in real-world setups, and lemme say—every single patient teaches me something diff. It’s not just teeth honestly, it’s people… and how they feel walking into the chair. I try really hard to not make it just a “procedure thing.” I explain stuff in plain words—no confusing dental jargon, just straight talk—coz I feel like when ppl *get* what's going on, they feel safer n that makes all the difference. Worked with all ages—like, little kids who need that gentle nudge about brushing, to older folks who come in with long histories and sometimes just need someone to really sit n listen. It’s weirdly rewarding to see someone walk out lighter, not just 'coz their toothache's gone but coz they felt seen during the whole thing. A lot of ppl come in scared or just unsure, and I honestly take that seriously. I keep the vibe calm. Try to read their mood, don’t rush. I always tell myself—every smile’s got a story, even the broken ones. My thing is: comfort first, then precision. I want the outcome to last, not just look good for a week. Not tryna claim perfection or magic solutions—just consistent, clear, hands-on care where patients feel heard. I think dentistry should *fit* the person, not push them into a box. That's kinda been my philosophy from day one. And yeah, maybe sometimes I overexplain or spend a bit too long checking alignment again but hey, if it means someone eats pain-free or finally smiles wide in pics again? Worth it. Every time.
3 hours ago
5

Hello

If you find yourself getting angry very quickly and it is affecting your relationships, it’s important to start paying attention to what triggers your anger and how you respond when it happens. Many people react automatically before they have time to think, which can lead to saying or doing things they later regret.

When you notice anger building, try to create some distance from the situation before responding. Taking a short break, stepping away for a few minutes, or delaying a difficult conversation until you feel calmer can help prevent reactions that damage relationships. Regular exercise, adequate sleep, and stress-management habits can also reduce irritability and make anger easier to control.

If anger is happening frequently, feels overwhelming, or is causing ongoing problems with people you care about, speaking with a mental health professional can be very helpful. They can help you identify patterns behind the anger and teach practical strategies to manage it more effectively. With practice and support, anger can become much easier to control and relationships can improve.

Take care

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Dr. Nirav Jain
I am a qualified medical doctor with MBBS and DNB Diploma in Family Medicine from NBEMS, and my work has always been centered on treating patients in a complete, not just symptom based way. During my DNB training I rotated through almost every core department—Internal medicine, Pediatrics, Obstetrics & Gynecology, Surgery, Orthopedics, ENT, Dermatology, Psychiatry, Emergency medicine. That mix gave me the skill to manage acute illness, long term disease and preventive care together, something I find very important in family practice. In psychiatry I worked closely with patients who struggled with depression, anxiety, stress related problems, insomnia or substance use. I learned not just about medication but also about simple psychotherapy tools, psycho education and how to talk openly without judgement. I still use that exp in family medicine, specially when chronic disease patients also face mental health issues. My time in General surgery included assisting in minor and major procedures, managing wounds, abscess, sutures and emergencies. While I am not a surgeon, this gave me confidence to recognize surgical cases early, provide first line care and refer fast when needed, which makes a big difference in online or OPD settings. Now I work as a consultant in General medicine and Family practice, with focus on both in-person and online consultation. I treat conditions like fever, infections, gastrointestinal complaints, respiratory illness, and also manage diabetes, hypertension, thyroid disorders, and lifestyle related chronic diseases. I see women for PCOS, contraception counseling, menstrual health, and children for common pediatric issues. I also dedicate time to preventive health, lifestyle counseling and diet-sleep-exercise advice, since these small changes affect long term wellness more than we often realize. My key skills include holistic diagnosis, evidence based treatment, chronic disease management, mental health support, preventive medicine and telemedicine communiation. At the center of all this is one thing—patients should feel heard, safe, and guided with care that is both professional and personal.
2 hours ago
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Hello, It is positive that you recognize the problem and are seeking help. When anger starts affecting relationships, it is important to address it early because repeated anger outbursts can damage trust and communication even when you do not intend to hurt others. Getting angry quickly can be related to several factors, including chronic stress, anxiety, poor sleep, unresolved emotional issues, depression, or difficulty regulating emotions. Identifying the underlying cause is an important part of treatment.

Some strategies that may help: • Pay attention to situations that trigger your anger and keep a record of them. • If you feel anger building, step away from the situation for a few minutes before responding. • Practice slow deep breathing and relaxation techniques daily. • Ensure adequate sleep, as sleep deprivation often worsens irritability. • Engage in regular physical activity to reduce stress levels. • Consider speaking with a psychologist or counselor for anger management techniques.

Since you mention that this is actively affecting your relationships, a professional evaluation would be worthwhile. Many people benefit significantly from counseling or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), which helps develop healthier ways of responding to stress and frustration.

Final Prescription/Advice: • Practice daily relaxation and stress-management exercises. • Maintain a regular sleep schedule and aim for adequate sleep each night. • Engage in regular physical exercise. • Consult a psychologist or psychiatrist for assessment and anger management therapy. • Tab Melatonin 3 mg orally at bedtime for 2 weeks if poor sleep is contributing to irritability. • Seek urgent medical help if you develop thoughts of harming yourself or others.

Feel free to reach out again.

Regards, Dr. Nirav Jain MBBS, D.Fam.Medicine

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
1 hour ago
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Hello dear See you are a young and definitely due to hormonal alterations anger issues come frequently. It is not abnormalities but there is a previous saying that excess of anything is bad for health. Iam suggesting some methods for improvement Please follow them for atleast two months Do physical exercise atleast half an hour daily for 5 months Do meditation Take good balanced diet for good health Engage in social media Indulge in hobbies like reading and writing Avoid overthinking Avoid junk food and alcohol/ smoking Set your goals for every day Get blood pressure evaluation done Hopefully improvement will occur In case of no improvement in 2 month consult psychiatrist in person for better clarity Regards

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