My sexperformance time is very low

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My sexperformance time is very low - #11182

Rohan joshi

i am not able perform good in bed 3 years if ny marriage gas bed . My sex Life has been very from the past few years could not find a good doctor in my city. Please help me my wife has told me i this problem continues she will give me divorse

Age: 32

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Dr. Bharat Joshi

I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.

45 days ago

Hello dear
See as per clinical history I think due to stres you may be having either premature ejaculation or some other health issues.
Please donot worry.
Kindly tell your wife that the condition is completely treatable and there is no need for divorce over this tiny issue
I suggest you below preventive measures.
Kindly follow them for 2-3 months
Avoid heavy meals and alcohol
Take ashwagandha or triphala once a day for 2 months
Do meditation
Do physical exercises atleast for half an hour
Especially kegel exercises
Take shilajeet after 1 month once a day
In case you feel no improvement
Then there is need to consult gynacolologist or sexologist.
Please update me where you live so that I can suggest best doctors for consultations.
Hopefully you recover soon
Regards

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Dr. Mickey Patel

I am a consultant Physician with about 8 years of work after my MBBS and another year post MD — which doesn’t sound like a long time until you start counting the hours in clinics, hospitals, and on-call nights. My training and practice have taken me through all kinds of settings, from busy outpatient departments to ward rounds that stretched late into the night. Over the years, I’ve worked both offline in traditional hospital environments and also online on platfory like Practo — which, honestly, changed the way I see patient care. In-person consults give you body language, subtle signs, that little pause before answering a question. Online care pushes you to listen differently, to pick up clues from how someone explains their symptoms without seeing them in person. It’s not easier or harder, just different. I’ve learned to adapt my approach — detailed history taking, targeted questions, and sometimes even asking the same thing twice in a slightly different way to be sure nothing important is left out. My scope as a physician is broad. General medicine cases form the core — fever, infections, chronic conditions like hypertension, diabetes, thyroid disorders — but there’s also the complex, overlapping presentations where you need to think wider. A patient might come for a persistent cough and leave with a referral for cardiac evaluation… because something in their story didn’t fit the usual respiratory pattern. I’m not the kind of doctor who rushes through just to keep the line moving. I’d rather spend a few extra minutes explaining what’s going on, what the tests are for, and why a certain treatment makes sense. Sometimes people say I ask too many follow-up questions, but honestly, missing details can cost much more later. Medicine changes fast — new studies, new drugs, new guidelines — and I make it a point to stay updated. It’s part professional duty, part personal habit. My goal is always to combine evidence-based medicine with practical, real-world care that actually works for the person sitting (or sometimes typing) in front of me. And yes, my spelling in quick notes might not always win awards, but the care itself stays sharp.

45 days ago

Hello dear,
There can be multiple reasons for the your problem.
The main cause of premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction is psychological issues…you need to get your proper evaluation done regarding this.
Better to get a online consultation done and get all your queries solved…
Let me know if you have any more questions…

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Dr. Neeraj Agarwal

I’m an MBBS graduate with a deep commitment to providing meaningful, patient-first care. My clinical training has given me a solid understanding of how to assess and manage a wide variety of health conditions—both common and complex. But beyond just clinical skills, I’ve always believed that the heart of medicine lies in listening. That’s what I try to bring into every consultation: not just treatment, but genuine attention to the person in front of me. I have gained experience across general medicine, paediatrics, emergency care and preventive health. I have treated patients of different age groups and backgrounds, which has helped shaped a more flexible, to diagnosis and management. Whether someone comes with a new symptom or a routine check-up, I aim to deliver evidence-based treatment, explained clearly and tailored to the lifestyle. I’m especially focused on making care accessible and comfortable. Too often, patients feel rushed or confused when they leave a doctor’s office—I try to do the opposite. Taking time to explain options, risks, or even just what’s going on in simple terms is something I take seriously. Communication, I think, is just as important as any prescription. I actively stay updated with current medical guidelines and research, and I’ve been exploring areas of holistic care and preventive medicine too. The more we can do to catch problems early—or better yet, avoid them—the better the outcome for everyone. I’ve seen how small lifestyle changes, when supported properly, can make a big difference to long-term health. There’s still a lot to learn, of course. I think every good doctor keeps learning. But every patient I see teaches me something new, and I carry those lessons forward—with honesty, empathy, and the intent to keep improving.

45 days ago

Hello Rohan
Could you describe it more
Like your duration is less or getting erection is issue,if I will know the details I can tell you and help you

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Dr. Shayeque Reza

I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.

45 days ago

Ok this is a matter of concern.
This requires proper counselling with you.
There need to interaction between us.
I need to find the possible cause and prescribe you medicine.
Don’t take any medicine without any diagnosis.
Thank you.

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Dr. Alan Reji

I'm Dr. Alan Reji, a general dentist with a deep-rooted passion for helping people achieve lasting oral health while making dental visits feel less intimidating. I graduated from Pushpagiri College of Dental Sciences (batch of 2018), and ever since, I've been committed to offering high-quality care that balances both advanced clinical knowledge and genuine compassion for my patients. Starting Dent To Smile here in Palakkad wasn’t just about opening a clinic—it was really about creating a space where people feel relaxed the moment they walk in. Dental care can feel cold or overly clinical, and I’ve always wanted to change that. So I focused on making it warm, easygoing, and centered completely around you. I mix new-age tech with some good old-fashioned values—really listening, explaining stuff without jargon, and making sure you feel involved, not just treated. From regular cleanings to fillings or even cosmetic work, I try my best to keep things smooth and stress-free. No hidden steps. No last-minute surprises. I have a strong interest in patient education and preventive dentistry. I genuinely believe most dental issues can be caught early—or even avoided—when patients are given the right information at the right time. That’s why I take time to talk, not just treat. Helping people understand why something’s happening is as important to me as treating what’s happening. At my practice, I’ve made it a point to stay current with the latest innovations—digital diagnostics, minimally invasive techniques, and smart scheduling that respects people’s time. I also try to make my services accessible and affordable, because good dental care shouldn’t be out of reach for anyone.

45 days ago

Your symptoms suggest possible erectile dysfunction or hormonal imbalance, which need medical evaluation. Please consult a urologist or andrologist—you can also use online platforms like Practo or Apollo 24/7 if specialists are not available locally. They will guide you with blood tests (testosterone, sugar, thyroid) and prescribe proper treatment for sexual performance and libido.

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Dr. Aarav Deshmukh

I am a general physician with 8 years of practice, mostly in urban clinics and semi-rural setups. I began working right after MBBS in a govt hospital in Kerala, and wow — first few months were chaotic, not gonna lie. Since then, I’ve seen 1000s of patients with all kinds of cases — fevers, uncontrolled diabetes, asthma, infections, you name it. I usually work with working-class patients, and that changed how I treat — people don’t always have time or money for fancy tests, so I focus on smart clinical diagnosis and practical treatment. Over time, I’ve developed an interest in preventive care — like helping young adults with early metabolic issues. I also counsel a lot on diet, sleep, and stress — more than half the problems start there anyway. I did a certification in evidence-based practice last year, and I keep learning stuff online. I’m not perfect (nobody is), but I care. I show up, I listen, I adjust when I’m wrong. Every patient needs something slightly different. That’s what keeps this work alive for me.

7 days ago

There are several potential reasons for experiencing low sexual performance, and it’s important to identify the root cause to pinpoint the right treatment. Common causes include psychological factors such as stress or anxiety, physical conditions like cardiovascular disease or diabetes, hormonal imbalances, or lifestyle choices such as obesity or smoking. Age can also naturally affect sexual performance, but improvements are often possible with the right approach. It’s crucial to consult a healthcare professional for a thorough evaluation. They can check vital signs, review your medical history, and perform necessary tests to rule out underlying causes. Blood tests might be beneficial to assess hormone levels and identify conditions like low testosterone. If stress or anxiety is significant, a mental health professional might offer strategies or therapies to manage these issues. On the practical side, healthy lifestyle changes like regular exercise, a balanced diet, and quitting smoking, if relevant, can improve sexual health. Avoiding excessive alcohol is important too. Sometimes medications like phosphodiesterase inhibitors (e.g., Viagra, Cialis) are prescribed, but it’s essential these are prescribed by a qualified doctor after assessing your overall health. Simple changes in routine or techniques during intimacy can sometimes help restore confidence. Addressing this with your partner can improve understanding and reduce pressure both of which might help performance. Exploring local options for a certified urologist or sex therapist, even in nearby cities, might provide more specialized help. If you’re looking for specific exercises or need more tailored strategies, seeing a healthcare provider would be the way to go.

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