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I have a problem withmy anus and don't know what to do - #11737

Billy

I've been having problems going to the bathroom for over a year it's always uncomfortable and sometimes have blood and pain or discomfort for hours after going the bathroom. I've look and something doesn't look right back their ... I've tried every hemaroids cream and treatment ....I'ma gay man and it's really starting to get me down and affecting my life

Age: 28
Chronic illnesses: Depression and anxiety
Bathroom pain
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Dr. Shayeque Reza
I completed my medical degree in 2023, but honestly, my journey in healthcare started way before that. Since 2018, I’ve been actively involved in clinical practice—getting hands-on exposure across multiple departments like ENT, pediatrics, dermatology, ophthalmology, medicine, and emergency care. One of the most intense and defining phases of my training was working at a District Government Hospital for a full year during the COVID pandemic. It was chaotic, unpredictable, and exhausting—but it also grounded me in real-world medicine like no textbook ever could. Over time, I’ve worked in both OPD and IPD setups, handling everything from mild viral fevers to more stubborn, long-term conditions. These day-to-day experiences really built my base and taught me how to stay calm when things get hectic—and how to adjust fast when plans don’t go as expected. What I’ve learned most is that care isn't only about writing the right medicine. It’s about being fully there, listening properly, and making sure the person feels seen—not just treated. Alongside clinical work, I’ve also been exposed to preventive health, health education, and community outreach. These areas really matter to me because I believe real impact begins outside the hospital, with awareness and early intervention. My approach is always centered around clarity, empathy, and clinical logic—I like to make sure every patient knows exactly what’s going on and why we’re doing what we’re doing. I’ve always felt a pull towards general medicine and internal care, and honestly, I’m still learning every single day—each patient brings a new lesson. Medicine never really sits still, it keeps shifting, and I try to shift with it. Not just in terms of what I know, but also in how I listen and respond. For me, it’s always been about giving real care. Genuine, respectful, and the kind that actually helps a person heal—inside and out.
45 days ago
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your symptoms are most likely from a chronic fissure or internal hemorrhoid, but given blood + discomfort + visible change, you need a specialist exam. Most cases are treatable (sometimes minor surgery fixes it for good). Don’t keep suffering in silence.

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Dr. Prasannajeet Singh Shekhawat
I am a 2023 batch passout and working as a general physician right now, based in Hanumangarh, Rajasthan. Still kinda new in the bigger picture maybe, but honestly—every single day in this line teaches you more than textbooks ever could. I’ve had the chance to work under some pretty respected doctors during and after my graduation, not just for the clinical part but also to see how they handle people, real people, in pain, in panic, and sometimes just confused about their own health. General medicine covers a lot, right? Like from the smallest complaints to those random, vague symptoms that no one really understands at first—those are kinda my zone now. I don’t really rush to label things, I try to spend time actually listening. Feels weird to say it but ya, I do take that part seriously. Some patients just need someone to hear the whole story instead of jumping to prescription pads after 30 seconds. Right now, my practice includes everything from managing common infections, blood pressure issues, sugar problems to more layered cases where symptoms overlap and you gotta just... piece things together. It's not glamorous all the time, but it's real. I’ve handled a bunch of seasonal disease waves too, like dengue surges and viral fevers that hit rural belts hard—Hanumangarh doesn’t get much spotlight but there’s plenty happening out here. Also, I do rely on basics—thorough history, solid clinical exam and yeah when needed, investigations. But not over-prescribing things just cz they’re there. One thing I picked up from the senior consultants I worked with—they used to say “don’t chase labs, chase the patient’s story”... stuck with me till now. Anyway, still learning every single day tbh. But I like that. Keeps me grounded and kind of obsessed with trying to get better.
45 days ago
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Hello dear Have you done your USG Cbc report done ?? Please make it done and let me know further…

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
45 days ago
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Hello dear See hammorhoids require proper diagnosis and comprehensive evaluation. Merely application of anti inflammatory creams will not provide complete relief. Iam suggesting some tests Kindly get them done for confirmation Sigmoidoscopy Renal ush Anoscopy Colonoscopy if recommended by gastroenterologist CBC Serum ferritin Stool culture if recommended Kindly share the details with gastroenterologist or laproscopic surgeon for better clarification Please donot take any medications without consulting the concerned person Hopefully you recover soon Regards

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Dr. Arsha K Isac
I am a general dentist with 3+ years of working in real-world setups, and lemme say—every single patient teaches me something diff. It’s not just teeth honestly, it’s people… and how they feel walking into the chair. I try really hard to not make it just a “procedure thing.” I explain stuff in plain words—no confusing dental jargon, just straight talk—coz I feel like when ppl *get* what's going on, they feel safer n that makes all the difference. Worked with all ages—like, little kids who need that gentle nudge about brushing, to older folks who come in with long histories and sometimes just need someone to really sit n listen. It’s weirdly rewarding to see someone walk out lighter, not just 'coz their toothache's gone but coz they felt seen during the whole thing. A lot of ppl come in scared or just unsure, and I honestly take that seriously. I keep the vibe calm. Try to read their mood, don’t rush. I always tell myself—every smile’s got a story, even the broken ones. My thing is: comfort first, then precision. I want the outcome to last, not just look good for a week. Not tryna claim perfection or magic solutions—just consistent, clear, hands-on care where patients feel heard. I think dentistry should *fit* the person, not push them into a box. That's kinda been my philosophy from day one. And yeah, maybe sometimes I overexplain or spend a bit too long checking alignment again but hey, if it means someone eats pain-free or finally smiles wide in pics again? Worth it. Every time.
45 days ago
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Hello Billy, This situation is very likely treatable,But need professional care.

🛑Kindly See a colorectal specialist or gastroenterologist-they can properly diagnose and treat the issue. Be open about your sexual history

Proctoscopy/Anoscopy will help to fund out the disease. Please dont delay, this needs meducal attention since it is more than a year.

Feel free to talk Thank you

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Dr. Varunkumar J
I am an ENT specialist with over 6 years of clincial practice and in this time I have tried to balance hospital work with building my own setup. Currently I work as Consultant at Meridian Hospital Kolathur and also as visiting consultant at VIHAA Hospital Anna Nagar. Along with this I started SCOPE ENT CLINIC in Villivakkam, which is my own space to treat patients with more time n focus. Running a clinic teaches you different kind of responsibility, not only treatment but also trust, making sure patient feels heard and safe. My practice covers a wide range of ENT issues, from common ear infections, sinus problems, throat disorders to more complex surgical cases. I try to focus on giving indiviualised treatment plans, because each patient story is differnt even if the diagnosis sounds similar. Working in multiple hospitals also let me collabrate with other specialities which is important when dealing with complicated ENT cases linked to allergy, pediatrics or even neuro. Founding my own clinic was both challenging and rewarding. Some days are hard, managing staff, handling emergencies, ensuring things run smooth.. but it gave me chance to create an environment where patients get continuity of care. For me ENT is not just about procedures but also education, I try to explain conditions in simple words, guide on prevention and lifestyle changes that can reduce recurrnce. Over these years, what matters most to me is not just how many cases I handled but the connections built with patients and their families. I want to keep growing, keep learning new techniques and stay updated with advances in ENT, but at the same time keep the human touch alive in practice.
45 days ago
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Hi Dear Billy, Kindly donot panic Kindly use ANOBLISS cream twice daily Have SITZ Bath Take Lactulose syrup 15ml at night Kindly visit an Medical gastroenterologist for further examination Take care

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Dr. Abhishek Gill
I am a doctor with 5 years total experience, mostly split between Emergency and Obstetrics & Gynaecology—and honestly both keep you on your toes in totally different ways. In the ER, you don’t get time to second-guess much. Things come at you fast—trauma, active bleeding, breathlessness, collapsed vitals—and you learn to think, act, then think again. But in Obs/Gyn, it’s more layered. One moment you’re handling routine antenatal care, the next you're managing obstructed labour at 3am with everything depending on timing. I try not to treat anyone like "just another case." I take proper history—like actual, detailed listening—and then move step by step. Exam, investigations only if needed (not just because), and explaining things clearly to the patient and attenders. Not gonna lie, sometimes I do repeat myself twice or thrice. People are stressed, they don’t hear it all the first time. Communication I’d say is one of my stronger areas, but not in some fancy textbook way. Just knowing *how* to talk, when to pause, when not to overload info. Like with a first-time mother in pain who doesn’t care about medical terms—she just wants to know if her baby’s okay. Those moments taught me more about medicine than most of my exams. I handle postpartum issues, early pregnancy complications, PCOD, menstrual complaints, emergency contraception consults too—bit of everything. And in casualty shifts, I’ve done everything from inserting Ryle’s tubes to managing hypertensive crises. You have to stay sharp. But also know when to slow down and re-evalutate something that doesn’t fit right. Counselling’s part of the job too. Sometimes patients need reassurance more than a prescription. Sometimes they just need honesty, even if the answer isn't simple. I don’t pretend to have all the answers, but I do care enough to find them. Bit by bit. Every single day.
45 days ago
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Hello, Your symptoms need proper evaluation and management. I can be due to piles or tear. Kindly visit SURGEON for best opinion.

Take care

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Dr. Nirav Jain
I am a qualified medical doctor with MBBS and DNB Diploma in Family Medicine from NBEMS, and my work has always been centered on treating patients in a complete, not just symptom based way. During my DNB training I rotated through almost every core department—Internal medicine, Pediatrics, Obstetrics & Gynecology, Surgery, Orthopedics, ENT, Dermatology, Psychiatry, Emergency medicine. That mix gave me the skill to manage acute illness, long term disease and preventive care together, something I find very important in family practice. In psychiatry I worked closely with patients who struggled with depression, anxiety, stress related problems, insomnia or substance use. I learned not just about medication but also about simple psychotherapy tools, psycho education and how to talk openly without judgement. I still use that exp in family medicine, specially when chronic disease patients also face mental health issues. My time in General surgery included assisting in minor and major procedures, managing wounds, abscess, sutures and emergencies. While I am not a surgeon, this gave me confidence to recognize surgical cases early, provide first line care and refer fast when needed, which makes a big difference in online or OPD settings. Now I work as a consultant in General medicine and Family practice, with focus on both in-person and online consultation. I treat conditions like fever, infections, gastrointestinal complaints, respiratory illness, and also manage diabetes, hypertension, thyroid disorders, and lifestyle related chronic diseases. I see women for PCOS, contraception counseling, menstrual health, and children for common pediatric issues. I also dedicate time to preventive health, lifestyle counseling and diet-sleep-exercise advice, since these small changes affect long term wellness more than we often realize. My key skills include holistic diagnosis, evidence based treatment, chronic disease management, mental health support, preventive medicine and telemedicine communiation. At the center of all this is one thing—patients should feel heard, safe, and guided with care that is both professional and personal.
45 days ago
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Hello Billy, I understand your concern and I’m herr to help. Your issues might be due to chronic fissure, hemorrhoids, skin tags or other causes too. like infections or IBS. Here is my advise -

1. Since it has lasted more than a year and creams haven’t helped, you should see a doctor in person (preferably a gastroenterologist or colorectal surgeon) for examination (proctoscopy/anoscopy). This will confirm the diagnosis.

2. What you can do meanwhile - - Syp. Lactulose 15ml HS × 7 days - High fiber diet (Flax seeds, chia seeds, cucumber, tomatoes) -Warm Sitz baths (sit in warm water for 10–15 mins, 2–3 times daily) – reduces pain and helps healing. - 5% Lignocaine for local application before passing stool. - Avoid excessive straining. - Use condoms and lubricant during anal sex until problem is fully evaluated.

3. Also get done screened for these anal STIs - HPV, HIV, VDRL, Gonorrhoea, Chlamydia, Herpes.

4. Please don’t ignore this — long-standing bleeding and anal changes must be examined in person. Treatment is possible, but we first need a correct diagnosis.

Feel free to reach out again.

Regards, Dr. Nirav Jain MBBS, DNB D.Fam.Med

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Dr. Perambalur Ayyadurai Rohith
I am a general physician with more than 10 yr of clinical experiance, and in this time I worked with patients from all age groups, from young kids to elderly with multiple chronic issues. My practice has been wide, but I gradually developed deeper intrest in diabetology. I spend much of my day focusing on prevention, early diagnosis and management of diabetes, using lifestyle modification, medical therapy and regular monitoring. Many patients come worried about complications, and I try to explain things in simple language, whether it is diet, excercise, or understanding lab reports, so they dont feel lost. I also conduct detailed diagnostic evaluation and use evidence based protocols to make sure treatment is reliable and updated, even if sometimes I double check myself when results dont match the clinical picture. Apart from regular OPD practice, I gained strong experiance in occupational health. Over years I worked with multiple companies handling pre employment checks, annual medical exams, workplace wellness programs, and ensuring compliance with industrial health and safety standards. It is diffrent from hospital practice, but equally important, because healthy workers mean safe and productive workplace. I run medical surveillance programs and health awareness sessions in collaboration with corporates, and this also gave me exposure to preventive strategies on a large scale. For me, patient care is not just treatment but building trust. My career revolve around preventive medicine, ethical clinical practice, and continuous learning. I keep myself updated with modern medical protocols, but I also value listening to patient worries, since medicine is not only about lab values but also about how a person feels in daily life. I make mistakes in words sometimes, but in my work I try to be very precise. At end of day, my aim is to provide care that is accessible, evidence based and truly centered on patient well being.
45 days ago
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1. Based on your history of long standing pain, bleeding, and discomfort, the problem is more than simple piles and may include anal fissure, chronic hemorrhoids, or even rectal prolapse.

2. Creams alone often give only temporary relief, which is why you have not improved even after trying multiple over the counter treatments.

3. A direct examination by a colorectal surgeon or proctologist is very important, as they can confirm whether surgery or a small procedure (like banding or cauterization) is required.

4. Constipation and straining make your condition worse, so maintaining a high fiber diet, drinking plenty of water, and using stool softeners regularly will reduce pain and bleeding.

5. Sitz baths (sitting in warm water for 10–15 minutes twice a day) are very effective in relieving pain and relaxing the anal muscles.

6. Being a gay man and having anal pain, you should also be checked for sexually transmitted causes like fissures or warts, since these can mimic hemorrhoids and need specific treatment.

7. Do not ignore it any longer a colorectal specialist can give you a permanent solution and greatly improve your quality of life and mental well being.

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Dr. Bheruram Netar
I am working in general medicine opd from 3 years now and that gave me wide exposure to all kind of patients walking in with different complain, sometimes mild, sometimes really serious. Most common I handle are seasonal allergies, gestational issues during pregnancy, diabetes and hypertension, but I also see cases of infections like dengue or malaria that need quick attention. In OPD you never know what the next case will be, one moment its a child with fever and next a adult with uncontrolled blood sugar, and I learnt to switch fast and think clear. I focus on proper diagnosis first, using detailed history and examination rather than rushing, cause many conditions overlap and can confuse. For example a viral fever might look like dengue in early days, or hypertension can stay hidden till it shows as headache or dizziness. I try to explain to patients in simple words what is happening with their health, as many come with fear and half information. Making them comfortable and giving them trust matters more than only prescribing medicines. Over these years I also developed a flexible approach in management, not every patient need same treatment plan. Like gestational diabetes require a very diff care compared to a young person with type 1 diabetes. Lifestyle counselling became important part of my practice, talking about diet, exercise, sleep routine and follow-up. Even with allergies or seasonal flu, guiding them on prevention and hygiene reduce re-occurence a lot. In opd practice volume is high and decision making has to be quick but safe. Sometimes you only have a few minutes, still I try to balance efficiency with personal care. Seeing patients recover and come back with gratitude motivate me everyday. Working across such diverse case made me more confident, but also humble because medicine is never fully predictable. There are times I doubt, recheck, ask for labs before final call, and I think that caution is also strength.
44 days ago
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Hello dear It’s seems like anal tear or hemroids Don’t panic You need to take rest for 1 week Ointment xylocaine for locally apply on anus Before and after poop Take Lukewrom water on bigbowl and sit for 10-15 minutes for three time a day because it’s relax your anal spincter and you will feel better avoid other activities for few days Syrup lactulose 5ml once a day Maintain Hygeine properly

Try for 5 days I think it will work its basic treatment and helpful too if still not improving don’t wait Then consult To general surgeon Thanks

DONT USE ANY OTHER LUBRICANT

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Dr. Alan Reji
I'm Dr. Alan Reji, a general dentist with a deep-rooted passion for helping people achieve lasting oral health while making dental visits feel less intimidating. I graduated from Pushpagiri College of Dental Sciences (batch of 2018), and ever since, I've been committed to offering high-quality care that balances both advanced clinical knowledge and genuine compassion for my patients. Starting Dent To Smile here in Palakkad wasn’t just about opening a clinic—it was really about creating a space where people feel relaxed the moment they walk in. Dental care can feel cold or overly clinical, and I’ve always wanted to change that. So I focused on making it warm, easygoing, and centered completely around you. I mix new-age tech with some good old-fashioned values—really listening, explaining stuff without jargon, and making sure you feel involved, not just treated. From regular cleanings to fillings or even cosmetic work, I try my best to keep things smooth and stress-free. No hidden steps. No last-minute surprises. I have a strong interest in patient education and preventive dentistry. I genuinely believe most dental issues can be caught early—or even avoided—when patients are given the right information at the right time. That’s why I take time to talk, not just treat. Helping people understand why something’s happening is as important to me as treating what’s happening. At my practice, I’ve made it a point to stay current with the latest innovations—digital diagnostics, minimally invasive techniques, and smart scheduling that respects people’s time. I also try to make my services accessible and affordable, because good dental care shouldn’t be out of reach for anyone.
43 days ago
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Persistent pain, bleeding, and changes in the anal area for over a year, despite creams and home treatments, suggest this may be more than simple hemorrhoids. Causes like fissures, chronic hemorrhoids, fistula, or other anal/rectal conditions should be considered. It’s important that you consult a colorectal surgeon or gastroenterologist for proper examination (proctoscopy/colonoscopy) and targeted treatment.

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Dr. Perambalur Ayyadurai Rohith
I am a general physician with more than 10 yr of clinical experiance, and in this time I worked with patients from all age groups, from young kids to elderly with multiple chronic issues. My practice has been wide, but I gradually developed deeper intrest in diabetology. I spend much of my day focusing on prevention, early diagnosis and management of diabetes, using lifestyle modification, medical therapy and regular monitoring. Many patients come worried about complications, and I try to explain things in simple language, whether it is diet, excercise, or understanding lab reports, so they dont feel lost. I also conduct detailed diagnostic evaluation and use evidence based protocols to make sure treatment is reliable and updated, even if sometimes I double check myself when results dont match the clinical picture. Apart from regular OPD practice, I gained strong experiance in occupational health. Over years I worked with multiple companies handling pre employment checks, annual medical exams, workplace wellness programs, and ensuring compliance with industrial health and safety standards. It is diffrent from hospital practice, but equally important, because healthy workers mean safe and productive workplace. I run medical surveillance programs and health awareness sessions in collaboration with corporates, and this also gave me exposure to preventive strategies on a large scale. For me, patient care is not just treatment but building trust. My career revolve around preventive medicine, ethical clinical practice, and continuous learning. I keep myself updated with modern medical protocols, but I also value listening to patient worries, since medicine is not only about lab values but also about how a person feels in daily life. I make mistakes in words sometimes, but in my work I try to be very precise. At end of day, my aim is to provide care that is accessible, evidence based and truly centered on patient well being.
42 days ago
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1.The light blood with egg white discharge after sex is most likely due to minor vaginal wall irritation, not period blood, since your cycle had just ended.

2.Hormonal changes around your cycle can make the vaginal tissue more sensitive and sometimes cause burning or spotting.

3.Since the itching is mild and not constant now, it does not strongly suggest a serious infection, but recurrent itching after sex should be checked.

4.The pelvic pain and burning during intercourse may be due to dryness, muscle contraction, or small abrasions rather than infection.

5.You don’t need to panic, but if spotting, pain, or itching continues, visit your gynecologist again to rule out vaginal infection or hormonal imbalance.

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From the description, it sounds like you might be dealing with more than just hemorrhoids—possibly something like anal fissures or even a prolapse, especially if you’ve tried over-the-counter hemorrhoid treatments without success. Blood and pain during defecation can signify these issues, and sometimes an anal fissure can cause a sharp pain and bleeding due to a small tear in the lining of the anus. This situation is definitely something you should address with a healthcare professional, ideally a gastroenterologist or a proctologist, as soon as possible. They can perform a physical examination and possibly a proctoscopy to check for ano-rectal conditions or abnormalities like a polyp or a fissure. It’s good that you’re observing and putting a time frame around these symptoms; this information will be helpful for any specialist when you’re explaining your symptoms. It might require some lifestyle adjustments in addition to a treatment plan. Adding more fiber to your diet through fruits, vegetables, or a fiber supplement could potentially soften stools and make them easier to pass. Additionally, ensure you’re hydrating well by drinking plenty of water. However, given the ongoing nature of this issue and your description of its impact on your quality of life, you shouldn’t delay in seeking medical advice. There’s a chance that what appears as a minor issue might need more invasive treatments, like prescription medications or, in some instances, surgery. It’s also pertinent to mention any history of anal intercourse to your doctor, as it can be relevant to your condition and what might be causing the issue. Do not ignore the worsening of symptoms like increased bleeding, significant pain, or signs of infection (such as fever), as they would require urgent medical attention.

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