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Sexual Health & Wellness
Question #23247
114 days ago
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how to long sex - #23247

Palak

I am really confused about how to long sex. Me and my partner have been trying to spice things up for a while now, but honestly, it just feels like we're always doing the same thing! Last weekend, we decided to set aside some time for intimacy, but I found myself finishing way too fast, like, not even close to what we planned. We want our sessions to feel more satisfying, lasting longer for both of us. I mean, I try to use techniques I read about, like breathing and pacing myself, but when it comes to the moment, everything just goes out the window! Sometimes I worry that my partner isn't enjoying it enough and I feel bad! It’s not that I don’t want to satisfy her; I just don’t get how to long sex and make it enjoyable. Do certain positions help?? Or is there something I should be doing way different? I read somewhere that practicing mindfulness might help but honestly, who has the time? And should we just maybe try toys?? I feel like we are missing out somehow; I've heard from friends that it's totally possible to make it longer, but how the heck do they do that?? If anyone has tips or tricks, I would totally appreciate it!

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To increase the duration of sexual engagement and enhance enjoyment for both you and your partner, there are several techniques and adjustments that could help. First, it’s important to approach this without putting too much pressure on yourself, as anxiety often contributes to premature ejaculation. One technique you can try is the stop-start method, where during intercourse, if you feel you’re close to ejaculating, you pause until the sensation subsides and then resume. It helps in gaining better control over the timing. Another technique is the squeeze method, which involves gently squeezing the tip of your penis to reduce the urge to ejaculate.

Additionally, focusing on foreplay can also extend the duration of your sexual experience and increase pleasure for your partner. This not only prolongs the activities you share but can intensify the connection and the experience itself. As for positions, some like the “spooning” position might help in reducing stimulation and thereby improving control over timing. It’s also worthwhile to explore which positions allow you to maintain control more comfortably.

Moreover, consider pelvic floor exercises, such as Kegels, which strengthen the muscles involved in ejaculation, potentially giving you more control. Regarding your question about toys, they’re definitely an option, as they can introduce new sensations and prolong the overall experience; however, it’s best to discuss this option openly with your partner, ensuring you’re both comfortable and excited to explore.

Mindfulness is another valuable strategy, even if it doesn’t occupy much time in your day. It can help maintain focus and reduce anxiety during intercourse. Incorporating just a few moments of meditation or deep breathing exercises can position you better mentally.

Lastly, remember that intimacy isn’t solely measured by duration. Prioritizing communication with your partner about what feels best and reassuring each other can vastly improve your intimate experiences. If the issue persists and is impacting your confidence or relationship, seeking advice from a healthcare professional could be beneficial.

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