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Sexual Health & Wellness
Question #25135
45 days ago
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how to improve sex duration - #25135

Raghav

I am kind of freaking out over here... Last month I got into a new relationship, and it’s been amazing, except for one thing — the sex duration. Like, it’s seriously a bummer. I don't know if it’s just nerves or what, but I find that I’m finishing way too quickly, and it's kinda embarassing. My partner has been super understanding, but I feel like I need to do something about it. I’ve looked up some tips online for how to improve sex duration, but there’s so much conflicting info out there! Some people say it’s all about breathing techniques, while others talk about certain exercises. Then, there’s stuff like edging or trying different positions, but I’m not sure if that really helps extend the time or if it just postpones the inevitable. I feel like I gotta figure this out soon 'cause I really like this person and don't want them to get bored or frustrated. Anyone here have any actual advice, like, real experiences with how to improve sex duration? I’d really appreciate any tips or tricks you’ve found to be helpful!

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Improving sex duration is a common concern, and the approach can vary depending on what’s comfortable for you and your partner. One of the most effective techniques is kegel exercises, which can be quite useful for controlling ejaculation. Kegels involve contracting the pelvic floor muscles — the same ones you’d use to stop urination mid-stream. Try doing a set of 10 Kegels three times a day. These exercises strengthen your pelvic muscles, which may improve control over ejaculation over time. Another method that might help is the start-stop technique. This involves stimulating yourself until you’re close to climax, then stopping to allow the feeling to subside before starting again. Doing this multiple times can eventually help increase overall duration. Some also benefit from trying different positions that may provide less stimulation, giving more control over the climax. Focusing on foreplay can also be beneficial. It provides increased satisfaction for your partner and eases the pressure on yourself regarding intercourse duration. Sometimes, topical anesthetic creams can help by decreasing sensitivity, but use those with caution and consult a doctor first to ensure it’s suitable for you. While methods like edging or changes in rhythm could help a bit, they aren’t always a surefire solution for everyone. If anxiety plays a role, incorporating relaxation techniques like mindfulness or deep breathing could reduce nervousness. Remind yourself it’s normal, and talking openly with your partner can relieve some pressure too. Should these self-care measures not lead to satisfactory results, consulting a healthcare provider might be a good next step. They can check for any underlying conditions and explore other options, like behavioral therapies or medications when necessary.

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