caretaker nurse - #27361
I am feeling really overwhelmed lately, I became a caretaker nurse for my elderly father who has Alzheimer's and it's like every day is a new challenge. He used to be so independent, you know? But now, I find myself constantly worrying about how to take care of him properly. Last week, he wandered outside and I panicked when I couldn't find him for almost an hour—that's when I really thought I might need some help. I mean, I'm not trained like a professional caretaker nurse or anything, and sometimes I feel like I'm in way over my head. I've read some info online about what a caretaker nurse does, and it sounds amazing, but I honestly don't know if I can afford a full-time one. Is it common for caretaker nurses to come part-time, or is it mostly a full-time gig? What are the signs that I should really hire a caretaker nurse because I'm struggling here? I also wonder if I should ask my dad's doctor for something to help him relax, but I don't want him to be too groggy—what do you think about that? Help! Just feels like I’m juggling too much right now, and I want to make sure he gets the best care without feeling like I'm failing him. Is there something I’m missing in being a caretaker nurse myself?
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