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Mental & Emotional Health
Question #24115
45 days ago
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Concerns About My Girlfriend's Post-Surgery Condition - #24115

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я хотел уточнить по поводу вопроса который я уже задавала час назад. он кажется под номером #24102. на всякий случай я обьясню снова с дополнительными деталями, у моей девушки была попытка суицыда и ей пришлось пройти операцию по удалению сгустка таблеток из желудка хирургическим путём, она лежала 2 недели в больнице перед этим и мы ежедневно общались когда ей позволяли пользоваться телефоном, она мыслила позитивно и больше не было желание умереть, единственное что усложняло ситуацию это её сильные боли в спине которые мучили её ещё до попадания в больницу, и то что таблетки повлияли на её мозг вызвав проблемы с памятью и небольшие трудности с передвижением, а так же был риск кровотечения из желудка. врач говорил что он уверен в том что операция пройдет успешно, за день до операции врач даже устраивал небольшие пробежки моей девушке, она чуствовала себя насколько я знаю нормально. после операции она полностью пропала уже на 7 суток несмотря на то что по словам врача (ещё до операции) её должны были выписать 4 февраля. я хотел узнать сколько примерно может занять времени лечение моей девушки, я правда не могу связаться с больницей ведь я с другой страны и не имею никаких контактов её родителей или друзей, я знаю её полное имя и дату рождения но у меня нет никакой информации о том в какой она больнице, её телефон отключен, и нет никаких новостей о её состоянии,я не знаю прошла ли операция успешно, знаю лишь что врач верил в лучшее. я очень боюсь что она могла умереть. я ничего не знаю о её состоянии после операции

How severe were her back pains before the surgery?:

- Unbearable

Has she had any previous mental health issues?:

- Unsure

What type of surgery did she undergo?:

- Stomach surgery
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Dr. Arsha K Isac
I am a general dentist with 3+ years of working in real-world setups, and lemme say—every single patient teaches me something diff. It’s not just teeth honestly, it’s people… and how they feel walking into the chair. I try really hard to not make it just a “procedure thing.” I explain stuff in plain words—no confusing dental jargon, just straight talk—coz I feel like when ppl *get* what's going on, they feel safer n that makes all the difference. Worked with all ages—like, little kids who need that gentle nudge about brushing, to older folks who come in with long histories and sometimes just need someone to really sit n listen. It’s weirdly rewarding to see someone walk out lighter, not just 'coz their toothache's gone but coz they felt seen during the whole thing. A lot of ppl come in scared or just unsure, and I honestly take that seriously. I keep the vibe calm. Try to read their mood, don’t rush. I always tell myself—every smile’s got a story, even the broken ones. My thing is: comfort first, then precision. I want the outcome to last, not just look good for a week. Not tryna claim perfection or magic solutions—just consistent, clear, hands-on care where patients feel heard. I think dentistry should *fit* the person, not push them into a box. That's kinda been my philosophy from day one. And yeah, maybe sometimes I overexplain or spend a bit too long checking alignment again but hey, if it means someone eats pain-free or finally smiles wide in pics again? Worth it. Every time.
44 days ago
5

Hello

After a situation like this (a suicide attempt plus stomach surgery), treatment and monitoring often take longer than initially planned.

After surgery, patients are often temporarily not allowed to use their phones and may be transferred to ICU or psychiatric observation, especially if their life was at risk.

Seven days without contact does NOT mean she has died — unfortunately, this is quite common in such cases.

What is most likely happening:

After surgery, she may be under strict medical and psychiatric supervision.

There may be recovery complications, pain, weakness, or memory problems, which can prolong hospitalization.

After a suicide attempt, discharge is almost never immediate, even if the surgery was successful.

What’s important to know:

If there had been a fatal outcome, the hospital would usually inform the family.

Lack of information is more often due to contact restrictions, not the worst-case scenario.

I understand how frightening this is — your fear is completely understandable

I trust this helps Thank you

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Dr. Bharat Joshi
I’m a periodontist and academician with a strong clinical and teaching background. Over the last 4 years and 8 months, I’ve been actively involved in dental education, guiding students at multiple levels including dental hygienist, BDS, and MDS programs. Currently, I serve as a Reader at MMCDSR in Ambala, Haryana—a role that allows me to merge my academic passion with hands-on experience. Clinically, I’ve been practicing dentistry for the past 12 years. From routine procedures like scaling and root planing to more advanced cases involving grafts, biopsies, and implant surgeries. Honestly, I still find joy in doing a simple RCT when it’s needed. It’s not just about the procedure but making sure the patient feels comfortable and safe. Academically, I have 26 research publications to my credit. I’m on the editorial boards of the Archives of Dental Research and Journal of Dental Research and Oral Health, and I’ve spent a lot of time reviewing manuscripts—from case reports to meta-analyses and even book reviews. I was honored to receive the “Best Editor” award by Innovative Publications, and Athena Publications recognized me as an “excellent reviewer,” which honestly came as a bit of a surprise! In 2025, I had the opportunity to present a guest lecture in Italy on traumatic oral lesions. Sharing my work and learning from peers globally has been incredibly fulfilling. Outside academics and clinics, I’ve also worked in the pharmaceutical sector as a Drug Safety Associate for about 3 years, focusing on pharmacovigilance. That role really sharpened my attention to detail and deepened my understanding of drug interactions and adverse effects. My goal is to keep learning, and give every patient and student my absolute best.
43 days ago
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Hello dear See as per clinical history it seems suicide attempt. However the treatment is usually completed within 4-5 days including recovery and rest. I suggest you to please consult the hospital authorities for better clarity. Probably the patient could have been discharged from the concerned hospital Regards

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